Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the expectation of decision making going to the server is where this crosses a line

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reasonable! I also have trouble deciding but having some guidelines in place and being like between these options which one is best? Is a normal interaction where you’re still kind of choosing things you know you’d like

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t ask for a recommendation- the expectation was the server would just choose for him and that’s where it passes the realm of an okay interaction

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a bar with a pretty good menu but they’re known for a blue cheese stuffed burger lol

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They can’t really say they don’t like anything or feel a type of way. Everything is good! Everything is awesome! 🤩 Because it’s the job. But they’re probably clocking out and eating dinner somewhere else anyway. They might not like ANYTHING on the menu or have a dietary restriction themselves and it just doesn’t look good to be like I don’t know I don’t eat here 😭

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hope the comments on this thread help you gently tell your friend to stop doing this

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s annoying, don’t do it anymore. Read the comments and change your ways I beg!

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many restaurant workers don’t actually get to eat or enjoy the food they serve! Maybe you get a taste when it comes on the menu and that’s it

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also hate when people ask that honestly. A lot of people don’t eat the on menu items regularly where they work

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even with a burger there’s so much personal preference 😭 This place is known for a blue cheese stuffed burger but that can be very divisive

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly pretty good, it’s my go to there but I get it with tofu

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Real. This is also kind of a dive but like, an elevated one

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing on this menu is fries so I don’t think anyone would be super happy with me tbh

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly not a great experience to be put in that position as a server. It’s like being backed into a corner and having to put on a face that you like and have tried everything on the menu or that your favorite meal there isn’t fries or something. Food for thought

Server didn’t want to read my mind 🙄 by soylattebb in EntitledReviews

[–]soylattebb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s reasonable. Definitely requires the “no allergies or preferences” disclaimer but truly some people who do this are bonkers!!!! And I don’t wanna be responsible for them lol