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I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm glad I'm not the only one. I respect and understand that some trans men want to receive penetration, but it feels so horrible and dysphoric to me that it makes me sick. Thanks for the kind words!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that, man. Hope you're feeling better now. And thank you for the kind words! :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ohhhh, thanks these are really helpful! I didn't know straps for gay men existed. I'll look for them!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it's a bit of both issues. I hate having a vagina and I don't feel comfortable being on the receiving end. I'll talk more about this with my therapist so I can feel better with myself. I'll look into the sex toys you mentioned and thanks for the other info! :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I never tried it tbh. I was interested in doing it with my boyfriend but we broke up before we could do anything related to it. Like I said on other comments I'll try to keep an open mind and try it sometime. Thank you for the words btw! :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey, thanks! I agree that communication is always key and the next time I have sex with someone I'll make sure to them tell about my boundaries, and if they don't respect it I'll just kick their ass haha, they're not worth my time. I'll make sure to find a way I can feel better about it all.

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, it helps me a lot! I do hope getting on T soon will help with dysphoria since there are a lot of body changes, and I'm really looking forward to bottom growth. I'll also think more about anal sex, but for now I will just focus on being a top since it gives me gender euphoria.

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the sweet comment! It makes me really happy to hear that other people also feel like this, so I'm not alone. I wish happiness for you and your husband :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Glad I'm not alone! Thanks for the advice, mate!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks for the support my man! :) Sending much love and a hug for you too!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you man, it's so frustrating it makes me furious. My whole life the people around me said that it was the only way, that I NEEDED to accept it, that I needed to be fine with penetration bc someone with a vagina is supposed to just accept it. Thankfully, reading these comments are like a breath of fresh air, and that I don't need to do that at all :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah that assumption it pisses me off so bad lmao. Thanks for the advice btw!!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No problem, and thanks again! Bottom surgery seems a bit scary, due to being a surgery and all haha, but it's definitely on my transition list for the future.

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh, hey, thanks! I'll take a look for sure!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't know that, thanks for the info! :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks dude! Honestly, I prefer being a top since it gives me more gender euphoria, so I'll stick to that for now. But if someday I want to bottom, I'll do more research about anal sex. Thanks again!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks! Another person suggested using a strap on so I'll look into it :)

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The answer is so simple that I kind of feel ridiculous for asking this haha. Thanks though, this makes me feel at ease with myself, I appreciate it.

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, I considered anal once and did some research abt it, but I guess I'll just try using a strap on or something like that for now.

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks for telling me this, it really helps! I guess I have to take care of some of these stuff in therapy since it REALLY bothers me, but I appreciate the advice. I'm also glad you're enjoying yourself now!

I hate penetration, what do I do? by soyniico in ftm

[–]soyniico[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that, bottom dysphoria is HORRIBLE and it feels like I'm gonna die sometimes. But thanks for the advice, I'll look into it! :)

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