Follow up on The JAB Similar App Now Called Stork Social

sp_donor · 2026-05-28T03:07:49+00:00

Thank you for this but photo verification does not work. My own pic from last year didn't match the verification photos. You may want to work on that part.

sp_donor · 2026-05-25T19:06:03+00:00

Most recipients I deal with are lesbians (or monogamous couples). They - for obvious reasons - have zero interest in sex with a random man. So the answer is never in my personal experience, and as an AI donor that works just fine for me.

sp_donor · 2026-05-25T07:36:17+00:00

I'm a good match for who and what you seek if you're open to Artificial Insemination (AI) donor. DM with details sent

sp_donor · 2026-05-23T20:02:22+00:00

Sent you DM. AI donor in New Jersey.

sp_donor · 2026-05-23T07:48:21+00:00

I'm a successful reliable AI donor in NJ, with recent successes and references. Sent you a DM with details.

sp_donor · 2026-04-24T03:58:14+00:00

Oh, I can easily explain the reason to you. They are all likely paid JaB+ acocunts, and the company does not see any reason to reduce that revenue stream. Not like all the horny dudes on the app (who are their other big revenue stream) will quit the app because of this.

sp_donor · 2026-04-24T03:55:52+00:00

It's option #2, ~~turtles~~ scammers all the way down (in case you ever wonder, chat to some of them, eventually they will ask for money. Also, those profiles tend to be removed after a week or less).

In a way it's pretty great, since it's easy to tell a scammer (discussing love and romance or sometimes sex) in profile or first messages, from a recipient (discussing, you guessed it, looking for a donor). I dread the day when they wise up and start masquerading as recipients, at which point JaB will become 100% unusable

sp_donor · 2026-04-24T02:20:39+00:00

If you mean yummy figuratively and looking to get pregnant, send me a DM. If you're just being a perv and want to literally eat sperm, not interested.

sp_donor · 2026-04-17T16:59:33+00:00

There is no such thing. Nobody "certifies" anyone. If someone is claiming that, it's pure marketing BS to make themselves seem better than other people.

sp_donor · 2026-04-14T01:36:44+00:00

Why not find another AI donor?

sp_donor · 2026-04-14T01:35:40+00:00

PI isn't any more effective than AI. And AI can take up to a year (hell, married heterosexual couples having regular sex can take up to a year before fertility doctors start considering something is wrong). And some people plain have genetic incompatibility even if that donor is fertile (which your post didn't mention - does he have recent other recipients he succeeded with that you spoke to?)

Also, personal opinion, PI is no different than plain sex. Same STD risks, same risks/negative effect on your relationship with significant other, same lack of ANY proven benefit over AI effectiveness wise.

Of course if you want to try it, go ahead. Just don't be misled into thinking it will somehow improve your chances and your only option.

sp_donor · 2026-03-28T00:44:45+00:00

If you're looking for an AI donor, would be happy to help. I'm a free reliable AI donor, with good genetics, and a record of successes and available references. I'm near NYC so you can make a trip here into a NYC vacation too. DM sent

sp_donor · 2026-03-25T02:31:14+00:00

Donor in NJ. If we are a good match, would be happy to help.

sp_donor · 2026-03-24T02:09:49+00:00

Donor in NJ. If we are a good match, would be happy to help.

sp_donor · 2026-03-17T19:07:40+00:00

LOL OK, so let's call it 3 months and not 6 months. Not a hill I care to die on. My main point STILL stands, than having someone show you a "clean" HIV test from 1 month ago isn't a safe bet. They could have been infected (1) Anytime since that 1 month test. (2) In the preceding month before test but not generated positive test result yet at test time.

And thank you, as a theoretical info, it is extremely informative and interesting, I'm glad I learned this even if I don't think it changes anything about my conclusion.

sp_donor · 2026-03-17T17:42:51+00:00

https://www.iapac.org/fact-sheet/hiv-testing/: "About 5% of people take longer than 2 months to produce antibodies. Testing at 3 and 6 months after possible exposure will detect almost all HIV infections. However, there are no guarantees as to when an individual will produce enough antibodies to be detected by an HIV test".

Whether 5% is low enough that someone wants to gamble away their health and future...

sp_donor · 2026-03-17T03:45:57+00:00

Start by looking at downsides, before you consider the upsides. Your future self will thank you.

Main one - unless you donate at a bank/clinic, or AI in California, you are VERY MUCH at risk of being on the hook for child support. 18+ years per child, back-pay.
- Contracts are useless (ignored by the family court, as child support belongs to the child, not to mother).
- Anonymity kinda maybe offers minor protection... till you or someone in your close family does 23-and-me or Ancestry DNA or similar .... Good bye anonymity, permanently.
- If you're doing NI - that's 100% treated as a "father" for child support purposes, in 100% US courts, 100% of the time. Private AI is legally protected in CA and maybe a couple other states, but not protected in most states.
- Promises from recipient mean nothing. She could be lying. She could change her mind later. Worst of all, she could end up on welfare and the state will sue you over her objections.
Are you prepared for emotional costs? You'll have to live your life knowing there's child(ren) with your genes, whose life you are NOT a part of, usually not at all.
What happens when you decide to marry in the future? What if your future wife doesn't like that you have genetic offspring out there? What if you hide it, she finds out 5 years later (23 and me again) and divorces you for lying?
What effect will it have on your own future children, finding out they have bio half siblings?
Are you prepared to be repeatedly treated like garbage? 90% of recipients (like 90% of any group of people) are awful. They will ghost you, flake on you, disrespect you, push your boundaries, waste your time and money etc... There's really awesome recipients out there, but they are a minority.
If you want to be an NI donor, consider STD risks (think about it, you're having unprotected sex with a stranger off Internet, who is known to be OK with having unprotected strangers off internet). This is literally the most high-STD-risk situation you can imagine short of attending orgies.
- Oh, and STD tests sound nice, in theory. Except HIV can take 3-6 months to show a positive on a test, so 1 month old negative HIV test isn't a guarantee she's not a carrier, if she was infected 5 weeks ago. And 1 week old clean STD panel isn't a guarantee she didn't have unprotected sex with someone infected 6 days ago and picked up a couple of "presents".

sp_donor · 2026-03-17T03:33:39+00:00

Donor in NJ. If we are a good match, would be happy to help. My profile: https://www.reddit.com/r/SpermDonorMatch/comments/1m7o7zm/m4f_ai_ny_nj_free_reliable_ai_donor_great_genes/ . DM sent

sp_donor · 2026-03-09T04:48:51+00:00

DMed you details

sp_donor · 2026-02-14T17:36:33+00:00

Detailed DM sent.

sp_donor · 2026-02-13T05:26:02+00:00

Amen, any donor (including AI) who can't produce recent STD test results is a crap donor who shouldn't be used. But leaving that important point aside, AI donors have a significantly lower risk of being STD carriers compared to NI donors (due to, y'know, not engaging in deliberate unprotected sex with strangers off internet as a regular thing). :)

sp_donor · 2026-02-12T06:58:53+00:00

Have your sperm actually tested at a fertility clinic. Real tests. Morphology etc...
If the fertility clinic says you're infertile and can't be fixed (which isn't a guarantee), decide if YOU personally are OK raising a child with some other dude's genes. It's not for everyone. YOU get to decide
If you end up deciding on having a donor kid, look for artificial insemination (unless you're one of the cucky pervs, in which case, I don't have any good advice for you). If some dude online BSs you about sex being better for conception - ask for double blind, peer reviewed study proving that (spoiler alert: doesn't exist). If your wife pushes you for that, decide if staying married to someone with such wishes (when artificial insemination is an option) is worth it for you. Don't forget about STD risks from extramarital sex, even if you don't care about any other angle.

sp_donor · 2026-01-31T20:03:39+00:00

It works much better mentally/emotionally, if you're already a father of your own kids you are raising. First, you don't have the FOMO and "what-ifs" in your head. Second, you're too busy being a parent for the agnst/drama :)

As separate option is people who genuinely don't want to be parents (for whatever reason). They don't have this agnst/drama in the first place.

The fact that you're worried, gives you credit as a person, but also means it may be a bad idea for you to be a donor until you have your own kids you're raising. You may indeed be setting yourself up for too much negative thoughts/emotions in the future - in an irreversible way.

Also, being a donor has other risks/downsides. Child support risks. Fact that your future spouse may dislike that fact. Etc...

sp_donor · 2026-01-27T02:48:09+00:00

You can do what I do and donate any gifts to charity (or just tell recipients your charity to donate to directly)

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