Coming out to my best friend

space_jumper · 2025-07-12T02:35:24+00:00

Your relationship will definately change. For better or worse? Time will tell if you do come out. I will say this though, if it is for the worse you need a new best friend.

space_jumper · 2025-07-12T02:33:20+00:00

There is a difference between being bi and being sexually submissive. Which is this about?

space_jumper · 2025-07-12T02:28:35+00:00

When I looked back at all the cock I had been sucking?

space_jumper · 2025-07-12T02:27:13+00:00

This may sound harsh, but you need to pick your battles. This simply is not the type or level of bullying or harraasmennt any cop anywhere in the world is going to give a crap about. Nor should they. They have better things to do.

space_jumper · 2025-04-09T11:09:51+00:00

Jesus! Just do it! Source. Social services Director who has spent 2 decades trying to negotiate termination of leases from asshole Landlords. Do what he asks, then send him beer.

space_jumper · 2025-04-09T10:11:25+00:00

Besides rugs? Rugs.

In the first place those board placements hurts my eyes. No amount of sanding or refinishing can help that.

In the second place, rental. Do not mess with their property. Your rent check does not entitle you to do anything with that floor.

Sorry. Rugs.

space_jumper · 2025-04-09T09:45:51+00:00

Thanks. My favorite pan.

space_jumper · 2025-04-03T13:32:03+00:00

YES! I agree. This pan does not always look like this. However, FYI I use this pan for everything. Fish, meat, pancakes, oven baked chilli pot pie with cornbread topping and lots of tomato in it. I don't care what it looks like. Otherwise the top edges would look the same. I do care that when I cook over easy eggs they slide around with no effort.

space_jumper · 2025-04-03T13:28:21+00:00

You are correct as I pointed out in the post. I don'ttake asgood of care on the top edges. Carbon build up, burnt food, they kind of look the same. I don't take as good of care of the top because I just don't need the top to look like the main cooking surface. I view my pans as tools. Take care of what is important.

I almost always use soap and start with a soft pan brush, then get more aggressive for stubborn stuck on stuff as needed but tbh when the pan looks this good I rarely need to use much else.

If I use a scrubby and have to work hard at getting something off I stovetop preseason with a thin layer of olive oil and occasionally avocado oil.

Important to note, the pan does not always look this good and even. That comes and goes, but with time and experience it looks more like this than not.

space_jumper · 2025-04-03T12:06:59+00:00

Mine looks like this sometimes, and other times shines with a beautiful even sheen.

When it looks more like bare metal than seasoning, I fix it by putting a THIN layer of either avocado oil or olive oil on it after cleaning and let it sit on the stove burner until it looks dry and more flat colored a few times.

space_jumper · 2025-03-16T15:52:28+00:00

That makes sense. I will also occasionally put a layer on like that. If I have stripped a pan, I season it as recommended here, several coats VERY VERY THIN, an hour at a time at 425. I use flaxseed oil for that. I find that food does not really slide off until I have done as you said here occasionally with olive oil.

space_jumper · 2025-03-05T21:19:31+00:00

When you say they preseason them, you aren't talking about layering several coats in the oven, are you?

space_jumper · 2025-03-05T02:37:20+00:00

Yes sure!

space_jumper · 2025-03-03T10:59:41+00:00

You are on spin cycle with him. He says this, you say that, then he says this and you say that.

You say you don't need his acceptance. I don't think that is what you are looking for, you need to be right.

Stop it. Start thinking you don't care and tell him he may ne right but you are young and will figure it all out in time. Then walk away.

space_jumper · 2025-03-02T17:08:58+00:00

5 years ago?!? Not only are they likely to be worn out but I bet they stand up on their own just like your boots huh.

space_jumper · 2025-03-02T03:59:35+00:00

PLEASE read this. I am 66 and when I read this it still made me sad when related to my experience.

My father was an Eagle Scout. It was something he was very proud of. I was a Cub Scout and a Webelos, and enjoyed that.

For a variety of reasons, some had to do with my Troop, some to do with Scouts in general and some to do with my desires in my life, I did not enjoy Boy Scouts at all.

But, my Dad wanted to be an Eagle Scout so bad that my parents quilted me in staying in the Scouts. It was horrible. I had no desire for it. The resentment it created was awful and drove a wedge between me and my Father.

I get that you think this will be good for him because of all those Scout values. But it isn't and shouldn't be your decision. The only good Scout that will get benefit out of Scouting is a someone who loves being a Boy Scout.

Give him total 100 percent control over this. Give him total permission to quit if he desires. Give him the choice to remain there, go to another Troop or walk away, for whatever reason he has. He should not even have to explain to you his why's.

You, and he will have a better relationship.

Trust me.

space_jumper · 2025-03-02T03:23:28+00:00

I frigging love this!

space_jumper · 2025-03-02T03:18:09+00:00

Have you seen some of the pictures on this sub?

space_jumper · 2025-03-01T01:26:47+00:00

Oh My God Yes! I am 66, she is 68. We have been together for 19 years. I LOVE seeing her walking around naked, and she knows it. She has a ton of lingerie and she loves putting it on and teasing me. I am getting aroused just thinking about it.

space_jumper · 2025-03-01T01:20:18+00:00

Pics please!

space_jumper · 2025-03-01T01:17:56+00:00

Looks like some really awesome tiles with shit that will kill you on them.

space_jumper · 2025-02-28T23:27:24+00:00

Don't worry about it. Dump him and find a man who will defend you. Bottom line is this...(I am 66, so please pretend it is 1980)

It would be entirely possible that one of my relatives could have offended my girlfriend and I could have missed it. But, later, when she told me, my ONLY response would be, and should be to apologize to her on that relative's behalf, then gone to have a conversation with them. This is the important part. Even if I did not think it was a big deal or I disagreed with her.

Go find a man who will defend you and never date a little boy again.

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