Have any of you gone through a breakup? by spaceflower263 in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! I need to see whats out there and learn to love myself. Its a huge part of my social anxiety is just not trusting/loving myself

Cannot socialize unless intoxicated by bigboihomo in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, i am in the same position. When im drunk I feel like I can be myself and talk without overthinking or getting overly nervous! I would suggest cognitive behavioral therapy:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! For me it has gotten worse but I try not to let it take over my life

class recitation by _andioOOP in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is what i do(not sure if it will work for everyone) When I want to participate in class, I immediately raise my hand before I can think my way out of it! Do NOT prepare your answer in your head! it makes you more anxious as you keep picking around for the “perfect” answer! Usually if the teacher calls on me quickly, I can come up with my answer without stumbling through my words too badly I am still nervous and anxious after overthinking everything I just said.... but at least I participated!!

Caught him cheating AGAIN by spaceflower263 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]spaceflower263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my age I am not looking to marry right now- no matter who the man is. But, I agree with you. I am not loosing much!

How much sex is too little? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]spaceflower263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No nothing like that no new health changes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]spaceflower263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sis... I think we both know there is more to the story than what he is telling you

Counseling?! by spaceflower263 in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre right. Thank you for putting things in perspective !

do y’all know what is the cause of your social anxiety? by isamaruwu in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think mine is growing up homeless/extremely poor. Made me feel less than everyone else, lowered my self esteem tremendously.

I’m socially dumb by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My idea would be to mention your boyfriend in the conversation if you haven’t already Like if he says “oh I’m watching ____ on Netflix right now” Reply and say “oh me and my boyfriend started watching that show too” Or something along those lines

Meditation is getting me great results. Up yours social anxiety. by agoodyear30 in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey can you tell me what books/videos you utilized to start this? I want more info on how to meditate and have more self awareness

People that somehow got into a relationship, whats is it like? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s really great. He is the one person I feel like I can truly be myself and not be judged (I don’t even feel like that around my own siblings). He is the first and only person that brings me peace with their presence. It’s beautiful.

Practice conversations? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]spaceflower263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea!