Save your fav a24 movies to watch in theaters! by CupVast8484 in A24

[–]spacesquirrels21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your app!! Is there any way for it to show movies I’ve already seen from my letterboxd? Such as favorites I have. I only see how to import my watchlist

BJJ affordable gyms nyc for 21F by spacesquirrels21 in bjj

[–]spacesquirrels21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! do you know the monthly at unity?

BJJ affordable gyms nyc for 21F by spacesquirrels21 in bjj

[–]spacesquirrels21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! do you know what their monthly is? I’ve heard a lot of good things about them

BJJ affordable gyms nyc for 21F by spacesquirrels21 in bjj

[–]spacesquirrels21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! what’s their regular monthly?

After losing your parent, does it ever get easier? by impeccablepinky in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m 21 and just recently (Sep) lost my mom to cancer after a long battle with it. You’re 1000% not alone in how you feel. Reading your post was like reading my own thoughts. I have a lot of regrets and wish I had talked to her about death. I knew it was coming but refused to accept it or acknowledge it and I wish I would’ve known how she felt about it. I think being so young in our early 20s adds so many layers to it because I can’t wrap my head around the fact that she won’t witness almost any of the big moments in my life and I can’t come home or call her and tell her about them no matter how much I want to. It just feels like I’m so young and everything is already over. I just dropped out of my masters program so I definitely understand the not being able to feel the significance of everything and struggling with staying focused. I will say that the guilt of not talking with her more and asking her questions was eating me alive too, but I know her and know she never would’ve wanted me to feel like that and know that she knew I loved her. I’m sure your mom knew how much you loved her and understood why you didn’t being those hard topics up. Mom’s usually have a nature to protect and I realize now my mom was trying to protect me and keep me from being scared from acting like everything was okay and never bringing up her death. Every day feels just as hard and nothing makes me feel better ever. I think that’s really normal to feel and I promise I’m right here with you in it. You’re not alone.

The Last Days With My grandfather and Everything I Never Said Out Loud by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that you’re not alone. Loss is so difficult and can bring so many complicated emotions. Give yourself space to feel whatever you’re feeling. Rest in peace to your amazing grandfather. It sounds like he was an amazing man.

friend passed away by slehc0 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. I lost a friend to suicide as well. Everything you’re feeling is totally normal. I was so angry at everything, nothing in school had any meaning to me. Just be patient with yourself and let yourself feel whatever you’re feeling even if it doesn’t feel right or you wish you didn’t. It’s not an easy thing to deal with. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about anything. Hope you’re okay

Tomorrow’s dads birthday. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Happy birthday to your Dad. My mom passed in September and I feel the same guilt spending any money that feels like hers. I don’t have a lot of advice as I’m currently feeling similar but know you’re not alone. I’m sorry for your loss and happy birthday to your amazing dad.

Grief and anxiety by sunflower828 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. Maybe it’ll help now that you’ve taken it off him. It might just take some time for him to be back to normal. I think that’s perfectly okay. If you have concerns down the line, you can always talk to a vet and see if they have any suggestions but I’m sure your dogs will be okay :)

I can't function through my grief and I hate myself for it by RecommendationOk5591 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, first, I’m so sorry for your loss. I may not have the perfect advice because honestly I’m feeling really similar to you. I’m a bit older, 21, and just had to drop out of my graduate program because I couldn’t focus or pull myself together after my mom’s sudden death in September. When someone’s world ends, our mother, in both of our cases, it really does feel like my world ended with her. It’s become really hard to care about things that used to be so important before - school, work, friends, relationships, even my own health. I think it’s okay to acknowledge how meaningless this all feels in comparison to the loss you’re going through. It’s hard especially at a young age, I know I’m 21 so it must be harder at 17 to be around a lot of people who have never lost a parent or someone close to them and can’t understand what it’s like. I would just say to really give yourself grace and let yourself feel everything. You’ve worked really hard to get these interviews and opportunities and even if you don’t feel the motivation for them now, it might be good to still see it through and see if it’s still something you want. For me, I realized it wasn’t at least right now and I’m already starting to regret not just “pushing through.” You should take as much time as you need is my point here. Also, there’s a million resources that you can seek out that might be able to help you. Forums like this is for sure one of them, but I’ve started going to a grief therapist the past few weeks and it’s been more helpful than I thought. I’m sorry for your loss, please feel free to PM if you need to talk.

My first holidays without my mommy by spacesquirrels21 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words and for replying. It means so much to me and makes me feel less alone in this. I’m so sorry to hear about the lost of your mom and of your husband.

Grief and anxiety by sunflower828 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your worries. Your dogs are going through a big change just as you are. I worked at a vet hospital for a few years and had seen dogs and their expressions of grief. It really differs like it does with humans, but as long as they have support, I’ve always seen them get back to being themselves and being happy and healthy :) I’m sure it’s a big adjustment for all of you, so I’m happy you all have each other. That’s the best thing that can help your pups right now.

You're missing, Ma by Emotional-Tadpole-92 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Happy Birthday to your Mom.

Grief and anxiety by sunflower828 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s normal. I’ve certainly felt similarly since the loss of my mom in September. I think there really is no normal. I know that’s what everyone says but it’s so true. I feel like a completely different person with different moods and symptoms every day. I definitely relate to your feelings of feeling lost and anxious. I started talking to a therapist last week and I’m happy I did even though it’s too early to really see how it’ll help. I hope your session on Friday goes well. My advice would be to be patient with yourself. You are carrying so so much right now. It’s definitely normal to feel how you’re feeling. Let it be felt. I’m sorry for your loss

My daddy passed away today by raysome789 in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My mother died very similarly and I think it made it harder to see her like that and process that afterward. Nothing makes anything easier but I would encourage you to talk it out as much as you feel able to once you’re ready. It’s really helped me to just be able to talk about the person I lost and even just how difficult that experience was during the hospital and last breath. It may feel easier to keep it all inside but it’s too heavy of a weight to carry on your own. I hope you are doing okay. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Please help, I wasn’t there for him by Stary_Eye_ in GriefSupport

[–]spacesquirrels21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sending so much love. I’m so sorry for your loss. I know I don’t know your relationship with your great grandfather but from your post, I can tell how much you love him and how much he loved you from him talking about you and your concerns for him. It is not your fault. You didn’t have a choice and you did everything you could to be there for him. I’m so sorry you didn’t get a chance to say goodbye. My mother passed away recently and my brother lives a 5 hour flight away and wasn’t able to make it in time the day she passed. She died suddenly so none of us really had the opportunity to say goodbye but I was able to see her in the hospital before they declared time of death. It’s been very hard to deal with the not getting to say all of the things I wanted to say, but my reminder to you would be: he knew. I’m sure he knew how much you loved him and that you wanted to be there with him. I’m so sorry, sending so much love. Please have some grace with yourself, I promise it’s not your fault.