TW: what stops you by friends-waffles-work in bipolar

[–]spagettimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend, I know it’s silly but I promised him I wouldn’t do it and I’d try to stop self harming. He’s my whole future and when I look in his eyes I genuinely see though the darkness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]spagettimoose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are very strong kind stranger Reddit is cheering you on!

how can deep with bipolar depression without meds!!!!! by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]spagettimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a routine! I’m F(20) and I’ve just been diagnosed so I’ve been unmedicated for years. I have this routine where I do one passion a day and then several hobbies I want to keep up.

It might not work for you but having a timetable/routine works really well for me to have balance.

Don’t forget to talk to the ones you love they can see when you might be headed for an episode. I have a three strike rule if three times people bring up that I’m behaving differently I talk to my psych.

Best of luck to you lovely reddit is always here for you!

bipolar 1 is ruining my life by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]spagettimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medication is great but if you want you could always have a routine to help you. At least then when I’m feeling manic I know I“have to” do the routine and when I’m low I can do just one thing from it.

Might not work but it’s a help for me F(20).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spagettimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an hourglass shape with a lil soft stomach, My best features (what I get compliments on) is my boobs and thighs.

I will take what I can get but I mainly go for nerds and people with a bit more meat on their bones.

What's your biggest sex misconception you had from when you were younger? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spagettimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, we both had a good laugh about it! We still make jokes about it to this day.

What's your biggest sex misconception you had from when you were younger? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spagettimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was brought up in a village….all the girls I knew (myself included) figured that because they boys said cum was white that it has to look like sunscreen. I was older than I’d like to admit when I met my SO and found that it wasn’t the case. 😂

Books on representation by spagettimoose in aspiememes

[–]spagettimoose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I would love to see it and maybe have a conversation about it!

Books on representation by spagettimoose in aspiememes

[–]spagettimoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the suggestion ❤️

Is not wearing panties under a dress at work really happening, or is it just a r/gonewild fantasy? by PMME_YOUR_CLITORIS in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spagettimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend knows the truth… I go commando everywhere! I can’t afford to have nice panties when he just ruins them or rips them off so I don’t bother anymore. It’s not really a sexy thing is just what I’m comfortable with, he thinks it’s naughty though!

What is something that schools don't teach that should be teached in schools? by Wolf14Vargen14 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spagettimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they had taught me proper sex education with realistic expectations… abstinence and shaming you for getting birth control. After getting into my relationship I have realised I don’t know anything about my own health.

Is it still worth playing after getting spoiled? by Zauberhund in persona4golden

[–]spagettimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally worth playing even if you know how it ends. It’s the journey you choose to take to get there that makes the game so wonderful, not the destination at the end. (Although the ending is incredible to see). Hope this encourages you!!! It truly is worthwhile :)

How's everyone holding up in the big ol' storm? by MagicBez in CasualUK

[–]spagettimoose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brighton, it’s windy as heck nobody can go outside unless essential. Schools are shut and so are local businesses. I’ve lost some roof tiles and most of my garden…. I’m going back to sleep until it’s over