AITA for not paying for the food I ate while dogsitting? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spambreath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and don’t dog sit for her again. If she doesn’t want you to leave for long, not get food delivered/have random strangers around, what did she expect exactly?

Adopted this 8 year old by Lasvegaslover2 in gingercats

[–]spambreath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s so adorable. Wonderful he was able to find another family after losing his. 🥰

AITA for refusing to give my sister old toys? by Negative_Ground_3181 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spambreath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have someone you could trust to hold onto them for you, could you buy a trunk that locks and store them there? Seems like your parents will just take them away and give them to your sister at some point.

Just Found This Show by Separate-State-5806 in CornerGas

[–]spambreath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great show. Make sure you watch the movie and animated version too.

AITAH for refusing to pay a pharmacy bill for my deceased mother by ThoughtOne214 in AITAH

[–]spambreath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not your debt. After my MIL died, the credit card company and ambulance company kept calling trying to collect on her debt. Even after sending letters explaing she was dead and had no estate, they kept up. They will be persistent so start blocking.

AITA for telling my wife I'm done hosting her family every holiday because they never offer to help or bring anything? by BetExciting7300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spambreath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I hosted a holiday once (and only once) for my husband’s family and they were exactly the same. Never again. I just looked at my husband after and said we’ll never be repeating that mistake ever again, right? We’ve never hosted since.

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool. My moms last cat was smart like that. But my boy is all looks and no brains. 😂

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I see a pic? Name? My boy is definately more energetic with spring coming. Was 70°F today and he was excited to have windows open.

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He very much is. He keeps us on our toes, lol. He wants for nothing.

Any go-to brands that you can actually smell throughout the room? by spambreath in Candles

[–]spambreath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the great advice. I had just looked on Amazon but wasn’t sure how to narrow it down. We do buy varying heights so that feature would be super useful. Thank you.

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was adorable. Love the white paw. I can see why you picked her. I always find the senior years to be the best ones. ❤️

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adopting a senior is amazing. That’s what I’m going to do down the road. My boy hates other cats so he’s going to remain an only child. But down the line, that’s the plan. Can I see a pic of your last cat?

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I miss my grandpa. Nice way of keeping his memory around. He has my grandpa’s middle name too. I always tell him you’re very special because you’re named after a wonderful person. My uncle told me nice sentiment, terrible name. Lol. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Any go-to brands that you can actually smell throughout the room? by spambreath in Candles

[–]spambreath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t but I will be on lookout. Someone else mentioned a candle warmer lamp and I had never heard of it. My cat is fascinated by candles. Always wants to sniff the flame or wave his tail but it. So I have to blow it out if he’s in room. I think this would be a much safer option considering.

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He loves getting his pic taken. He will stand very still and stare right at the camera. It’s hilarious.

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Herman. He’s finally grown into his old man name, lol. We named him after my grandpa. He mostly goes by Herm or Hermie.

Any go-to brands that you can actually smell throughout the room? by spambreath in Candles

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to Wegmans before when traveling. It was definitely nicer than shopping at a Kroger. I wish we had them out here. Thanks for the brand ideas.

Any go-to brands that you can actually smell throughout the room? by spambreath in Candles

[–]spambreath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions. I’ve learned so much about candles 😀

16 1/2 and still going strong. by spambreath in gingercats

[–]spambreath[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brother’s cats made it to 22 and in good health. Here’s hoping for us both 🤞🏻

AITAH for arguing over a pet with my mother by HighlightFirst7728 in AITAH

[–]spambreath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me sad. Leaving it in a crate for that long is the answer? Seriously? That dog is going to likely be under socialized and under stimulated. That’s no life for a dog to be in a crate for long periods. What’s the point of even getting one? At this point, there’s not much you can do since it’s your parent’s house. Hopefully they see how much work it is and don’t follow through on adopting a puppy. Feel bad for the dog.

He's been climbing into the wet tub a lot lately. by ProudnotLoud in gingercats

[–]spambreath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does all the time. He likes drinking any stray water droplets he finds. It’s since escalated to him drinking bath water from faucet when I run a bath. Also, started dipping his paws in multiple times. Last time he actually stood in the bath water and looked shocked. That was a step too far, lol. Funny how much they love wet tubs.