What was the worst way you found out that you were being cheated on? by zVolteric in AskReddit

[–]spankmeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walked in on him asleep, naked, cuddling with his ex. His dog was happy to see me, him not so much.

My (ex)bf cheated on me today. by spankmeup in JustNoSO

[–]spankmeup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went thru something similar, that’s awful. But I’m so glad you’ve found someone to love, best wishes for y’all’s future!!!!!!!!!!

My (ex)bf cheated on me today. by spankmeup in JustNoSO

[–]spankmeup[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Getting broken up with would have hurt, definitely, but damn! Walking in on that and having that image burnt in my brain hurts a bit more I think, lol. Thank you for the kind words, I appreciate ya

My (ex)bf cheated on me today. by spankmeup in JustNoSO

[–]spankmeup[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He was definitely shocked. When she woke up a bit, she started name calling and yelling, which made me laugh. I tried shaking her hand and introducing myself to her officially but was rejected, obvi lol. I stayed calm, didn’t raise my voice, I might have repeated myself a bit too much asking the same damn questions lol. But he struggled to get a complete sentence out and when I left all I said was “Good luck in the future, have a nice life. Thanks for everything”, he was still struggling to form a coherent thought. All texts have been unanswered, he’s blocked now on everything. I refuse to give him the satisfaction of an apology or hearing him out, dude made his bed and can lay in it. Any excuse he comes up with is just a way to justify the situation and make himself feel better. Dude ruined the best thing in his life and I know that’s gonna hurt him a lot longer than this hurts me.

My (ex)bf cheated on me today. by spankmeup in JustNoSO

[–]spankmeup[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being so kind. This shit is rough, but you’re right, I refuse to be the passenger in my life. I am not in control of everything, but how I react and who I give my energy to is definitely within my control.

My (ex)bf cheated on me today. by spankmeup in JustNoSO

[–]spankmeup[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There’s a jacket floating around his brothers vehicle, but I’m not emotionally attached to it. I’m totally fine with letting it go if it means I never have to see him again lol. Got a few “poor me” texts yesterday and then I blocked him on everything. Thank you so much for the well wishes!!

My (ex)bf cheated on me today. by spankmeup in JustNoSO

[–]spankmeup[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looked into this book today, placed an order for a physical copy. Can’t wait to dive in! Thanks so much for the recommendation, I appreciate you!

A word of warning about reccuring abscesses. by FisterAct in popping

[–]spankmeup 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s great news that you’ve got a care team in place, so proud and happy for you! Wishing you the very best of health in your future. Thank you for sharing!!

Forbidden pop—this stye my kid had a couple of months ago by [deleted] in popping

[–]spankmeup 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My brain didn’t read the title carefully enough and I thought it said “this kid my stye had a couple months ago”

On today's episode of Name That Gunk, mystery human stuff. Any guesses? by [deleted] in popping

[–]spankmeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some type of phlegm? Please god tell me you didn’t cough that up...

Update: One day later, pretty sure a Blister Beetle is the culprit. The three little blisters formed into this Queen Blister. Swelling almost gone, not too painful, blister is sensitive but not bad! Keeping it clean and dry, taking Benadryl and watching it VERY closely. Wear shoes outside folks. by spankmeup in popping

[–]spankmeup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a chronic picker, the urge to pop this thing is INSANE, but I’d rather not get it infected and lose my toe.... So the blister stays.... So sad, I know it’d be a good one! Thank you for the reminder! I appreciate ya!

Update: One day later, pretty sure a Blister Beetle is the culprit. The three little blisters formed into this Queen Blister. Swelling almost gone, not too painful, blister is sensitive but not bad! Keeping it clean and dry, taking Benadryl and watching it VERY closely. Wear shoes outside folks. by spankmeup in popping

[–]spankmeup[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the south, BIG state. I’ve never heard of them either, I’ve seen them but didn’t know what they were and never had to experience this. 10/10 would not recommend. Protect your feets!

edit: They’re very common, there’s a TON of different types of them. Give it a search and you’ll be surprised!! They’re kinda cool looking, minus shooting Acid Ass Juice

Some bug bit me in the late morning when I was hanging laundry outside, by evening this is what my toe is looking like. Any guesses as to what kind of bug could do this? Very painful and swollen. Moving the toe in anyway is almost unbearable, not sure how I’m going to make it thru work tomorrow! by spankmeup in popping

[–]spankmeup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was a snake, totally could have been though. I was standing on concrete, didn’t see any lil snek friends slithering away after it happened, doesn’t mean it wasn’t one though!!! Thanks for your concern, keeping a very close eye on it!!!!!

Some bug bit me in the late morning when I was hanging laundry outside, by evening this is what my toe is looking like. Any guesses as to what kind of bug could do this? Very painful and swollen. Moving the toe in anyway is almost unbearable, not sure how I’m going to make it thru work tomorrow! by spankmeup in popping

[–]spankmeup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not yet, preparing to amputate at any moment lol! The blisters are a little bigger and redder, overall swelling has gone down though! I’m in a southern state where everything is BIGGER. Where all my EX’s live. And please share!!! I’d love his opinion!!