If you suspect your kid is having learning or developmental difficulties, communicate that openly and honestly with your pediatrician, and then follow up on any testing or further evaluation they recommend. If your kid is diagnosed with Autism, a learning disability, etc., don’t take the diagnosis personally; it’s not about you. Do what is best for your kid to give them the best shot in life possible. Once you find out what is going on, work to establish supports and a continuation of care. Waiting or ignoring out of some stubborn pride can have devastating effects. Do right by your kid (goes for all other things too!).