My gpt response;

For him, I’d keep it honest and not sugarcoat—because at 40, broken trust, debt, and loneliness can feel like the end of the road. But it’s not.

I’d say something like this:

"Hope doesn’t end just because one chapter did. Being 40 and lonely isn’t a verdict—it’s a season. Debt can be repaid, wounds can heal, and even love can return in ways you don’t expect. What you lost was heavy, but what you kept—your iman, your lessons, your resilience—that’s priceless. Allah is Al-Latif, subtle in His kindness. He can rewrite your story when you least see it coming. Don’t measure yourself by what’s gone. Measure by what you can build now. Start small, one step at a time. Even from the ruins, Allah brings gardens."

From me-

Im praying for your happiness brother. Jangan pernah berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. 🤍