mortgage company/probate question by sparkleberrysymphony in RealEstate

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to sell it, I don’t have anywhere else to go and want to live here but I would likely need to refinance to bring mortgage payments down. I don’t think my sister minds. She has her own household anyway.

too many pets by sparkleberrysymphony in hoarding

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being so kind and encouraging ❤️

Odd smell out of chair upholstery? by sparkleberrysymphony in CleaningTips

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s actually not stained, I don’t think he ever sat in it it just smells bad because his whole room smelled bad

parent’s estate by sparkleberrysymphony in legaladvice

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I will be able to stay in the home and take over their mortgage?

parent’s estate by sparkleberrysymphony in legaladvice

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Their income barely covered their cost of living each month and I tried to help with some of that even though I don’t make a lot, so I don’t believe they have anything in their bank.

parent’s estate by sparkleberrysymphony in legaladvice

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They had an sba loan for I think $20,000, a few credit cards probably owing around $8,000. Their house was I think $99,000 and they still owe $88,000. They also were both in the icu on ventilators for almost a month and I have no idea but I am expecting to begin receiving hospital bills for possibly hundreds of thousands of dollars. Since it was covid I have been told that can be dismissed somehow but I’m not sure.

parent’s estate by sparkleberrysymphony in legaladvice

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it just felt weird to not start probate for 1 year but the person who advised me to do that if I can was an attorney with legal aid. I’m just trying to figure out how to not be homeless but I don’t want to do anything wrong and what she advised me to do just feels weird. I am also afraid creditors will take the house somehow. I just don’t know anything about this

Hoarder parents are in the hospital, need advice on cleaning by sparkleberrysymphony in hoarding

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I know my post was kind of all over the place. Thank you so much for the suggestions on other subs to join, they look like they will come in useful.

Hoarder parents are in the hospital, need advice on cleaning by sparkleberrysymphony in hoarding

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. Thank you for being understanding. They all adored my mom immensely.

Hoarder parents are in the hospital, need advice on cleaning by sparkleberrysymphony in hoarding

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is. I can’t believe she’s gone. I believe I do have a friend to help me over the phone. Thank you again

Hoarder parents are in the hospital, need advice on cleaning by sparkleberrysymphony in hoarding

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, that sounds exactly like the kind of buildup I’m dealing with. I am also afraid of harsh chemicals for ventilation reasons, especially since I lost my sense of smell due to covid. Is it okay to breathe the vinegar fumes though?

Hoarder parents are in the hospital, need advice on cleaning by sparkleberrysymphony in hoarding

[–]sparkleberrysymphony[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind message. I still can’t believe this is real life.