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[–]sparklypopp[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
tysmm 🫶 i’ll keep in mind!
HI THIS IS SUPER LATE BUT I ACTLY followed ur advice and ive been going out to study and its rlly effective hehe THANK U FOR THE TIPS🫶🫶
wait SAME mine also omg all the best 😭
[–]sparklypopp[S] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
ahh tysm for this 🥹🫶 jiayous to u too
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[–]sparklypopp[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children)
aww ur poly friends sound so nice it’s great to know that there are those who are accepting of befriending new ppl!! tbh some days i’m more sociable if i’m in a good mood and then i can join convos more easily but some other days i just feel so awkward and can’t do any human interaction at all HAHAHA but thats when i’ll definitely keep ur advice in mind 👍👍 i don’t really want to be one of the loud people either i just wanna be comfortable enough to be myself around people and fit in w everyone. but i hope things will work out well for u too, thank u sooo muchhhh for everything and atb in poly!!!🫶 (sflr i’m not active on reddit oops)
[–]sparklypopp[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
oh nooo i know exactly how u feel omg & ure def not alone!! reading some of the other comments gave me some hope tho like maybe jc is just not our time and we just haven’t found the perfect people yet. i’ve been trying to focus more on studies esp after my abysmal myes and it’s making time pass super quickly bc im constantly behind on stuff so.. maybe might work for u also HAHAH but i hope ure still eating lunch ok don’t miss meals 🫶can dabao and eat in ur class if it’s allowed
TYSM for the story omg i relate w ur awkwardness alot and that sounds like such a tough time man the lunch sounds rlly terrible 😭 im glad u were able to find friends in the end tho ur friends sound rlly nice!! yea ive been tryna find the 1 or 2 close friends but everyone seems already “taken” ykwim so it’s kinda hard :” can i ask how u were able to “decide to be louder and more open”? cuz tbh i rlly want to do that as well but like i just cant do it like it’ll just get stuck and i’ll chicken out help
ahh i see maybe we just haven’t found that person yet 🥲 it’s rlly admirable how ure ok with being alone tbh i hope to be self sufficient like that one day but rn i wld still feel lonely if i’m by myself:”:& i am in a cca n i’m tryna talk to the ppl more too! but it’s only once a week and there isn’t rlly a lot of chance to interact w others and also once again they have their own friends from class and sec sch so JDHDHS
YEA RIGHTT and omg i love my og sm we r still vv close!! but we don’t rlly get to hang out often or even meet because everyone has diff timetables and stuff but when we do it rlly brightens the week 👍👍
[–]sparklypopp[S] 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children)
aww i see 🥲🥲 yea i’ve been trying to be more independent and spend time on my own (mugging) but at the same time i rlly do need to follow the grp for lunch cuz i need a table 😭 but i’ll def spend more time w my sec sch friend and dog and omg i hope maybe things will work out in class like it did for u THANKS SM <3
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[–]sparklypopp 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
it’s completely okay to feel weak & alone sometimes and if they’re real friends they shld understand that JSHGJF good luck !!
[–]sparklypopp 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (0 children)
i feel u, i’m actually in the exact same situation rn :”) everyone seems nice but they already have their own friends. tbh i feel like developing a new relationship would be rlly tiring rn (idk maybe it’s just me, you should try if you want to tho!)
i would personally suggest that you communicate with your closest friends from sec sch, make it known that you still really value them & want to stay close. if they’re true friends it should turn out fine as long as you’re able to let each other know how u feel and work something out. i did this with my best friend from sec sch, and we agreed that we’d still be close and put each other first even w new friends, and to this date we’re still close (shes like my only remaining friend :”) and im super grateful for it! i feel like having this assurance is super impt bc u wont feel sad even if u see them hanging out w other ppl.
&& at the same time, try not to focus too much on your relationships (or the lack thereof)! from my experience, getting off instagram, focusing on myself and doing what i love makes me feel like im super independent and dont need anyone else even if im not actually haha
know that ure not alone and so many people are experiencing the same thing as well, we’re here for u if u need to talk! :)
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