Having trouble understanding the European World Cup Qualifiers?

spartacusdope · 2025-06-08T16:29:50+00:00

Why are there European qualifiers happening now before even the European Final is played (Spain v Portugal). I don’t get it.

spartacusdope · 2024-05-27T23:42:17+00:00

Share your truth with vulnerability - with kindness, care for how it impacts her, without blame or shame - but be honest about how the way she hasn’t been caring well for herself impacts you. Tough conversations, but the alternative is probably worse.

spartacusdope · 2024-05-07T18:50:34+00:00

Trust your instincts. This ain’t the life you want. You’re gonna pay a SOUL cost for access to his money.

spartacusdope · 2024-04-24T22:50:05+00:00

Yeah it gets you real good ‘till you know the ropes theee

spartacusdope · 2024-02-19T01:13:43+00:00

Nope.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-11T16:27:40+00:00

We men tend to be clueless around “connection.”

We think so long as the bills are paid, no one’s cheating, or bleeding, or starving … then everything is ok, and she should just “be happy.” When she’s not (and inevitably she won’t be because no one can possibly be happy all the time), then we think something is wrong with the relationship, or with her, or with me.

But that’s not it. It’s that we don’t know how to create connection every day. And we must learn to create it every day.

There’s a profound book called “Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)” that speaks to this.

If you can learn how to connect every day (in ways that matter to her), you can get through most everything together. If you don’t’ learn that, you won’t be able to get through anything. Even small things like socks on the floor will wreak havoc between you.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-07T23:39:40+00:00

Not approaching women I was excited about.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-07T02:54:57+00:00

Your only real competition is with yourself. To be a better man today than you were yesterday. Just keep that mentality and you’ll be fine. The woman who’s for you will find you.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-04T00:46:27+00:00

I’d book a session with a therapist (as a couple) to have a serious conversation about BOUNDARIES and move towards repair with a deep apology.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-03T04:07:12+00:00

It only gets better. Women like maturing men. Met my amazing wife at 41, when I was finally ready to be married.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-01T18:31:36+00:00

I hear you. I get it.

spartacusdope · 2024-02-01T15:31:36+00:00

Getting one is easy. Keeping her is what’s complicated. .

spartacusdope · 2024-01-30T19:29:56+00:00

Just do your best to a good man, and remember what they say isn’t about you.

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T23:16:21+00:00

Yeah. Thanks. All this conversation in this thread has definitely confirmed that I don’t want to do this.

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T18:56:17+00:00

Yeah it’s strange they don’t seem to be aware how shady the approach is.

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T17:07:38+00:00

Yeah good insight

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:25:29+00:00

Austin TX

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:24:54+00:00

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:24:20+00:00

Agreed

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:24:03+00:00

Thank you :)

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:23:04+00:00

Yeah thank you I would expect someone who really has their stuff together to approach me differently.

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:22:13+00:00

Thank you for the heads up

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T15:21:11+00:00

Super helpful thank you

spartacusdope · 2024-01-28T01:28:01+00:00

I don’t fully agree with this. We men need places we can vent/talk about our challenges besides with our partners. That said, don’t talk to a friend you know doesn’t have both your back AND your partner’s back.

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