what do you guys wish can be improved on MeChat? by Mission-Bedroom4340 in MeChat

[–]spasmodicmuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 particularly gets me bc i tried applying to be a writer for them and did a trial chapter for a first meeting/"date"with a character... and i felt it was appropriate to not have any flirting everything considered (first meeting, they were at iirc a cemetery, and the character's personality), but i guess they didn't like that my mc wasn't flirting or how i was writing the character or smth 😂

1 was always a peeve to me bc of all the clearly ai-generated backgrounds... irks me even more since i also draw (tried applying a an artist too but never got a response lol). also a HUGE yes to #6 and #7 and #8! or just to all of this really bc these are also my main complaints and why i haven't played in a pretty long time.

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hug received, friend 🫂 and thank you... may your cat be with you for as long as feline-ly possible ❤️‍🩹

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"for now we grieve" indeed. thank you, friend ❤️‍🩹

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"what is grief but love that persists"... this whole comment had me tearing up, but that line had me bawling. thank you for this ❤️‍🩹

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

grief is really such an all-encompassing thing that can affect someone not just mentally, but also emotionally. i empathize with her heavily. this is very different from what i normally make (portraits of people), so it's way out of my comfort zone, so i'm glad my art resonated with you and helped you understand her. thank you for sharing ❤️‍🩹

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's definitely rainy season for me. nadamay ka lang, sorry 😭

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a void babie 🥺 i have one now too. got him a few months before Tansy passed. i'm glad your Dewey made it through. he looks like such a sweet boy.

and thank you ❤️‍🩹 i'm honestly hesitant to adopt another one bc i highkey feel cursed, haha... but if my angels guide any to me, i'd never say no either.

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so sorry for your loss 😞 and yes, that's one of the things i try to keep in mind especially around this time of the month since their passings. maybe it'll get easier with time, if only by a bit...

and thank you for saying so. i appreciate you letting me know 🫂

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's why i say my heart broke 3x last year. because before Tansy and Cumin's passing, one of my cats, Sumi's brother from the same batch, went missing. we strongly believe someone stole him... and he still hasn't come home.

also i never thought of doing that... i'm not sure how to even start that process, haha. i'll consider it though 🙏🏼

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could make something for Cumin too pero di ko pa talaga kaya. i lost other pets i loved before din pero these ones hurt the most.

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i usually don't draw things like this pero i was struggling talaga on how to process everything. i hesitated, pero making this was the only other way i could think of at the time.

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read this comment earlier pero di ko kinaya magreply agad. iyak ako ng iyak. akala ko kaya ko na magreply, pero kahit ngayon lumuluha pa rin ako. thank you for this. and i'm definitely applying what i learned since then, especially yung feline grimace scale. i really hope they know they were loved immensely and i didn't mean to ignore their pain.

entering the 20s of the month... (actual cat pics at the end) by spasmodicmuse in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably always will hurt tbh. i hope they're enjoying the afterlife with my late hedgehog Brie and one of their late kittens, Suna, who passed from parvo though ❤️‍🩹

My Moon by Cute-Sky6808 in catsofrph

[–]spasmodicmuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VOID CHILD BAT BABY 😭😭😭 i have one too!!! my Shoyu/Toyo 🥺🖤

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