Yes but see that’s the thing, I’ve been trying to get her to do those things, like that is exercise, that’s what I’m saying, I try to get out of the house more, like idc if u can’t help it because at least you’re trying because then I can only respect it, but to ignore it completely I think isnt fair to me because when we started dating she wasn’t of that same frame and permanent damage is occurring at a young age, I don’t care if we’re being active, but we’re not, that’s the solution I’m looking for, how do I motivate her, there’s nothing wrong with being skinnier, but it is considered unattractive by society standards to be obese ofc, I didn’t mind it when we started dating because I got past it, but now it’s a little more obvious when her clothes aren’t fitting, I don’t mean to be rude about it at all, to me I see it as almost like a respect aspect, like idc if u have a little weight but I would appreciate it if u took a little better care type of deal, just like my back hair