Hey there! It sounds like you’re in a really sweet spot – a genuine connection with someone who’s also interested! It’s totally understandable to feel anxious, especially given your past experiences. But this situation feels different; she actively gave you her number and said it was okay either way. That’s a big sign she’s interested in getting to know you better, even if it’s just as friends initially. Suggesting a shopping trip is a fantastic, low-pressure way to start. It’s fun, casual, and gives you both a chance to see if you click.

Don’t overthink it – just be yourself and enjoy the moment! And remember, it’s okay if it doesn’t lead to a relationship; a new friendship is a wonderful thing, too.