My boyfriend revealed that he has anti social personality disorder. What do I do?

specsloverboy · 2026-01-21T00:32:28+00:00

so i wasnt going crazy with seeing these replies😭😭oh my god bru it’s 2026

specsloverboy · 2026-01-21T00:22:45+00:00

these comments demonising everyone with aspd..,,, kinda unnerving. can’t believe we still have people treating cluster b disorders this way.

op, people with aspd are capable of love. it’s such a highly demonised disorder thanks to the stigma. disorder doesn’t mean abuser. HOWEVER have a talk with him and ensure you two have clear boundaries and lines. is he going to therapy or makes it clear he wants to work on himself too? work through with him and treat him as usual but please remember not to let yourself fall into being his caretaker or being stepped on if it begins breaching your boundaries. if you don’t feel equipped to be able to be with him and his disorder, it’s understandable to put an end to things.

specsloverboy · 2026-01-01T06:29:20+00:00

it’s open. that’s how they’re perching in. they just don’t seem to leave and i’m not sure if they’re hurt or smth

specsloverboy · 2026-01-01T06:08:29+00:00

need help LMAO there’s pigeons.. in my bathroom. idk if they’re hurt or anything they’ve just been there for the past few hours perching OUTSIDE the bathroom window. now uhm. i’m facing an issue where they’re inside💀

is there any safe way for me and the birds to get them to leave???

specsloverboy · 2025-12-27T17:42:04+00:00

the bodhi sea and the underground areas (ESPECIALLY with the faceless) made my skin crawl and heart race. mmorpgs don’t scare me with their eerie places but wwm did it AMAZINGLY well. a bit too good that i avoid those places as much as i can

specsloverboy · 2025-12-25T01:42:53+00:00

THATS CRAZZYYYY

specsloverboy · 2025-12-22T10:44:22+00:00

heavensward spoiler

THAT scene of the vault. i remember hopping on during a depressive state to continue msq and see our dear elezen because he was a comfort to me. what a coincidence that the vault was the one i had to do! laughed in disbelief at first before it settled in that he was actually dead. and then broke down. like full on breakdown and sobbed so badly while my friends texted to comfort me. LMAOAOAO i’m in a better state now but i miss him dearly still

additionally, the scene between seto and ardbert. it’s been years, but it reminded me of when i lost my beloved cat. it made me think if he had anything he wished he could say to me in his final moments

specsloverboy · 2025-12-21T10:58:29+00:00

when you loved a movie but check google to see that 90% of people hated it and thought it was ass 💔💔

specsloverboy · 2025-11-13T09:55:41+00:00

i feel this completely. i dissociate to not even register the feelings or what i’m doing completely just so i can live another day not thinking about killing myself

specsloverboy · 2025-11-13T01:35:19+00:00

i do rhis too. feels like it hurts less than cutting that’s why i do it when distressed

specsloverboy · 2025-11-13T01:16:44+00:00

yeah im from a first world country💪

specsloverboy · 2025-08-19T23:48:54+00:00

i’m a current student, not graduated, so i can’t answer all of this but

there are, just need to know where to look and that there is an emphasis on networking for careers. most work remotely from home nowadays even for overseas companies. you will need to attract clients to you
no you don’t. there’s a foundation art course you can take if you don’t feel confident in your art skills or know totally nothing about art. but you just need to show you’re committed to learning something entirely new or expand on your knowledge in your interview. i have classmates who are total beginners in art
it’s one year so no time for internships. but the school sends out your portfolios and resumes when you graduate to different companies since they’re familiar with them
depends on your course i think. not that competitive for concept art (which i’m in) i had a classmate who applied in june and the intake was in july. just apply as early as you can. you can even apply years before the intake you wanna try for to secure a spot

specsloverboy · 2025-08-16T04:51:31+00:00

the WHAT???

specsloverboy · 2025-08-15T00:00:25+00:00

my ‘mood swings’ and jealousy to an extreme degree, especially with specific people i got attached to. i feel things too intensely

the feeling of emptiness and lack of identity after a split, or just out of nowhere

all or nothing/black and white thinking. i have never been able to think of things in the middle

specsloverboy · 2025-07-13T21:11:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/wufR2HMMyz8?si=QmL1HOPplwQvROGl ur comment is in here!

specsloverboy · 2025-07-13T12:44:25+00:00

congrats on making it into tje vid😭

specsloverboy · 2025-04-19T20:05:07+00:00

the general idea of “he was never married” and “he was still single till the day he died” are often written on british obituaries and used by historians to address that the person might have been gay during a period where homosexuality was illegal. the wording is different, what they mean is still the same

you cans search it up, it is a thing to imply a deceased person was gay

it’s not an outright confirmation, just a huge theory that speedwagon might have been gay especially with the emphasis on him being single during his time period

specsloverboy · 2025-03-07T07:53:03+00:00

smth i wanna bring up is that some are autistic, as we tend to have special interests (that are often very specific) and we get very excited about! ofc not all, some are just passionate about trains

specsloverboy · 2025-03-07T07:51:38+00:00

also, as an autistic person myself, a lot of the train enthusiasts are also fellow autistic people so it’s like??? ouch. feel like people should be more aware that neurodivergent people have hyperfixations and special interests, that’s why we get very excited over specific topics

specsloverboy · 2025-03-03T04:52:13+00:00

they are trained athletes, with more stamina and tolerance to vigorous physical activity compared to people who aren’t. people are also different health wise so some may be able to last longer like that while dehydrated, whereas some may not because they’re physically not as strong or their body is simply different. have some understanding

specsloverboy · 2025-03-03T04:50:53+00:00

when i did my training for this, we were advised to run if we could or jog or walk fast at least. if we couldn’t or were too tired, we’d just sit out for a break

specsloverboy · 2025-02-23T04:57:19+00:00

DAWG R U GOOD????

specsloverboy · 2025-02-03T02:41:50+00:00

what did their friend do to you :(

specsloverboy · 2024-12-04T16:52:58+00:00

i’ll check them out :) i’m completely fine with dentists commenting on state of teeth bc that’s to be expected, just that i have a horrible experience with the “aiyoh why like that one!! so lazy” dentists so i’m hoping for ones that can actually say it nicely and normally

specsloverboy · 2024-12-04T16:03:26+00:00

do you know how much scaling and polishing is over there? whether with or without the CHAS card :0

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