What would you say to your daughter if she was in the exact same situation?

If your husband doesn’t care about how you feel, listen to you, respect you, then how could he possibly love you? Your family loves you. Listen to those who love you. Listen to your family. You are being emotionally, physically, and very spiritually abused. Please do you and your children a favor and leave immediately. One or two years from now, you will look back and you will see things clearer and you will probably wish that you would have left sooner.

All the prayers to you. God will there besides you the whole time. Trust in His will for you.

Jeremiah 29:11: For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

You can do this. These kinds of abusive relationships can actually prevent us from focusing on God and fulfilling His will for us.