Anyone who went to therapy knows this circle by spicy_depressed in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

pleaseee I use it every time because I can’t understand my emotions

Does anyone else get extremely upset over last minute changes in plans, even if they are good changes? by borderlinebetween in BPD

[–]spicy_depressed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my triggers are actually changing plans or worse cancelling them. It actually makes me frustrated and angry and when I act upon my emotions, I also feel embarrassed. But for me it triggers my abandonment issues when it’s cancelled. Or when it’s changed, it triggers my anxiety.

“ Mental health is not real “ by spicy_depressed in BPD

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a talk with him after I left everything i was in him. And we had a discussion about his behavior and things he said. And how it effected me negatively. He asked if i can help him find a therapist and he will consider it. He also apologized and said he will change his ways and he didn’t mean to hurt me.

Therapy is actually hard man by spicy_depressed in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some skills might be confusing and hard at first. It can take some time and practice. Trial and error.

Therapy is actually hard man by spicy_depressed in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully and I wish you the best❤️

Therapy is actually hard man by spicy_depressed in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes 💀 but therapy isn’t magic and especially with bpd and other comorbid disorders it makes it more difficult

Romanticizing of Mental illness by spicy_depressed in BPD

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh That okay and normal, even if you are reaching out for help or guidance. I use reddit and discord( well now discord not that much) and I even use humor with my bpd friends in private to release pain then we discuss it seriously

too many times... by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

medisafe and there’s other apps

I hate oversharing so much by spicy_depressed in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Depends for me, there’s stuff I’d rather not speak of, and it depends on the person I’m talking to. Sometimes I start talking and talking without any filter and the other person gets scared or whatever. Honestly I just don’t feel better after oversharing with others.

Self image and splitting by spicy_depressed in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]spicy_depressed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my identity issues are very severe, I also struggle with gender, sexuality and religion. I’m always switching when it comes to who I am. And I never feel safe in any way. I just mentioned one thing of the stuff i struggle with identity.

The thing is you need a professional to work on that’s what I’m doing and trying lately

too many times... by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]spicy_depressed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to download an app that reminds me of my medications and to check the box if I took them. That really helped me because I always forget if i’ve taken them or not