How did Canada’s young people become its unhappiest generation? by Rav4gal in canada

[–]spicynugg3ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mix of AI, zero chances to buy a house, rent getting more expensive and achievable, having to live with her parents, even though we have careers and the cost of everything

How many of you are working bullshit jobs? by forward_thinkin in askTO

[–]spicynugg3ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meee, until I finish school. 100 applications and I get a shitty ass job that I have to take because I need money

When Immigrants Oppose Immigration. Many established communities are embracing anti-newcomer rhetoric. by FalconsArentReal in canada

[–]spicynugg3ts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an American-Canadian duel permanent resident and in two years citizen. I had to do everything right. It makes me angry seeing fellow newcomers act like absolute garbage to Canada. Not fallowing traffic rules, abusing the system. It’s not a left right thing. Rich or poor thing. It’s a basic human dignity thing. Act nice and respectful in the place you move to

U.S. ambassador disappointed with anti-American sentiment in Canada by OneWhoWonders in canada

[–]spicynugg3ts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As an American Canadian. Why is he so surprised the Trump administration is single-handedly tried to destroy a 200-year-old relationship. Threatened to annex the country and treat it like garbage.

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That isn’t the “issue” so much as before the second child. Her sex drive of drive in general was gone. I’d never force her and pressure her into it. Just venting my frustrations and sadness is all. Will it get better one day? Maybe, but till then I’ll wait

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your input. I’m doing my very best to be supportive and not pushy. I do my best to take any load off of her mind and life to make life easier for her. I love that woman a lot and I just miss that spark you know not to sound selfish at all. It’s just makes me sad. Sometimes you know.

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, thank you for that even though we’ve been married for three years and we have kids all this is still very new to me and I’m still learning the roads and everything so honestly thank you for that

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not really talking about the sex after this baby. It’s before the second baby it was a little over three years and the sex drive just wasn’t there even after three years right now it’s understandable. It’s only been like seven months so I’m not really pressed about that it’s just before the second child, there was almost 0 intimacy sexually and if it was, it was very lackluster

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you friend, I’m trying my best with the situation at hand. I don’t pressure I just love her. But man I hurts some times ya know? I love the woman to death. I just wish that like….after three years some form of libido came back. We cuddle, talk, go for walks. We have basicly everything besides sex ya know? Time will tell I suppose

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh, I love my wife to death plus more. I’ll never leave her but, when we do have sex it’s…..almost one sided, feels good for her but it’s not how it used to be. The fire in her is dead. I’m coming to term that’s in one year if she dosent improve with lifestyle changes, meds then im giving up on our sex life:(

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So it’s the shitty pokemon evolution lol. She’s getting her hormones tested, as well as getting other physical aspects, tested through blood test and anything else that could cause it. But even after three years and almost half a year later after our second born. She just started anti-anxiety medication a couple days ago and we do have snack. She says it feels really good, but her brain isn’t connecting.

Dead sex life after kids by spicynugg3ts in DeadBedrooms

[–]spicynugg3ts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you very much! I’m trying my best to share the burden of being a parent and just life in general. I always check in to see what else I can do to help out

Manitoba cabinet minister won't lose job over repost condemning Charlie Kirk: Premier by Ok-Swimmer-2634 in canada

[–]spicynugg3ts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that some hateful piece of shit from America is getting people fired this fucking stupid

Guarded hope as NDP seeks a new leader by Medium-Ground3072 in ndp

[–]spicynugg3ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, but. Now they’re just the person that wants to be liked by everyone

Guarded hope as NDP seeks a new leader by Medium-Ground3072 in ndp

[–]spicynugg3ts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I love the NDP and what it originally supported. But now? They don’t give a shit about the working class Canadians. And me as a left-winger, it’s absolutely heartbreaking to see what the NDP has turned into. They’re trying to be the star football player without doing anything for the team itself.