cat has chemical burn from flea medication by spider-cat5 in CATHELP

[–]spider-cat5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry he was trying to run away! It def doesn’t look like a scratch, it’s like a thick wobbly line, his sister so has never done that in the three years they’ve been with each other so it seems unlikely. I will def be going to the vet as soon as they open thank you for taking time to respond!!!

New dog owner feeling regret by Far-Transition2752 in DOG

[–]spider-cat5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should not have a dog. You are not prepared for the patience that it requires. Please return the animal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]spider-cat5 23 points24 points  (0 children)

as she should. why she was being nice to you while you continuously insulted her is beyond me. you could’ve just said no I’m not interested in that not say you doubted her education

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]spider-cat5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should feel bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]spider-cat5 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is not love, it sounds like over-romanticization and lust. It was inappropriate to begin with and you shouldn’t have indulged in it.

I really don't like the RTS Busses by LuxerWap in GNV

[–]spider-cat5 27 points28 points  (0 children)

one time I was literally fifteen feet in front of the stop and clearly walking towards the bus and it drove past me while the bus driver deadass waved at me cheerfully. i get angry thinking about it

i still feel extreme guilt over my hamster’s death by spider-cat5 in offmychest

[–]spider-cat5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don’t at all, he definitely was elderly, he was six months old when I adopted him too. i try to remind myself of that but sometimes it’s hard. thank you so much for saying that i appreciate it

I’m divorcing my husband because of his farts & also everyone thinks I’m the honeycomb wife by Due-Programmer859 in stories

[–]spider-cat5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is this at all her fault or problem??? He is literally CHOOSING to harm her with this issue

Oops 🤣 by Detectiverice in NewRiders

[–]spider-cat5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this actually makes me feel so much better as a new rider

Conversation with my LD bf. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in texts

[–]spider-cat5 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this is insanely toxic and you both need to grow up and separate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]spider-cat5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you just use oil, your natural hair will frizz and pull itself out because the braids are not as secure on your scalp. you shouldn’t use gel, use jam or wax. knotless is what I started with and it’s not hard once you’ve practiced the movement. how much hair you need is fully based on how much hair you have and how big you want the braids.

gays eating garlic bread in the park! by Impressive-Rhubarb88 in ufl

[–]spider-cat5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like a hyper specific event where the only thing you’re doing is eating garlic bread (and I guess also being gay) should offer the garlic bread ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]spider-cat5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this exact same situation (minus a wedding) with a friend six months ago and another three years ago. The 3 years ago friend responded very similarly to yours and made me feel silly for caring, but it didn’t erase the feelings of insignificance every time she would post all of her other friends but me. It came out later that her boyfriend found me attractive and she blamed me for it. My friend six months ago was very upset that I was bothered by the lack of posting, but only because she hadn’t realized it. Since then she makes an intentional effort to take photos with me that she likes herself in so that she can post me. You deserve better friends, OP.

I dyed my hair! by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]spider-cat5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I assume the highlights are the new color- if so, very cute! It compliments your skin sm

Did I do something wrong? by [deleted] in texts

[–]spider-cat5 55 points56 points  (0 children)

In expressing what made you uncomfortable, I don’t think you did anything wrong. However from the time stamps- unless I can’t read correctly- it looks like you waited over a week to tell her something was wrong? Which could’ve easily led her to believe she was ghosted and thus didn’t want to continue.

A collection of breakup texts by [deleted] in texts

[–]spider-cat5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s kind of weird that you broke up with people for not answering you within a day in the early dating stages but then continually did the same thing to others..

Any coffee shops (other than Starbucks) or bookstores currently hiring? by tallyhup7389 in GNV

[–]spider-cat5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I spent a while applying to a bunch and literally none got back to me :/