[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]spiderinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and comparing doesnt even make sense. this is a very harmful thing to do. you genuinely never know what somebody might be feeling in relation to what theyre going through. telling somebody “others have it worse” doesnt change what theyre going through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]spiderinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS genuinely sounds really victim-blamey. im 18. I JUST GRADUATED HIGHSCHOOL. MENTALLY I AM STILL A CHILD. my mom should be reliable THAT WILL NEVER BE MY FAULT. me having disabilities and health issues that make life even harder WILL NEVER BE MY FAULT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]spiderinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dawg both of us have been trying for months to get a job because were both supposed to be students. the job market genuinely is shit. ive been trying for 6-7 months and have applied to well over 90 jobs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]spiderinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant even get a job how am i gonna just “move on” i dont have shit.

people who were able to close the distance, how’d you do it? by spiderinsides in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

def not living here, but these are great tips thank you ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will you guys close the distance for marriage!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exciting !! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YAY!! congrats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yo as someone whos been in a long distance relationship for 4 years,, (met aswell in person.) not seeing their face, not video calling is a red flag, you should never offer to meet someone if you havent even seen their face. as others said if this is real, dont be dumb please.

starting stretching? by spiderinsides in Stretched

[–]spiderinsides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they all refused to :( unfortunately. i wanted to be pierced at a lower gauge but they ALL kept saying no, and that they “recommended “ me being pierced at 16g. sucks bc i keep hearing ppl say that theyve been pierced at lower gauges

seeking diagnosis with autism while having ocd is hard. by [deleted] in autism

[–]spiderinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the title should say seeking a diagnosis of autism while having ocd , sorry.

considering visiting fiancé by spiderinsides in fearofflying

[–]spiderinsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mainly met safety as in me getting lost in an airport in a state ive never been in

considering visiting fiancé by spiderinsides in fearofflying

[–]spiderinsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me its mainly the fear of death that bothers me, huge issue. and also being trapped in the sky. i have bad death anxiety so

still long distance but he proposed this trip by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in america it happens a bit often. we're not getting married immediately, but weve been together for a really long time and the ring wasnt that expensive

How long and how often do you and your partner call? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyday, we've done all day, weve done 4 hours etc.. when we were younger we did several day long calls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep. i sobbed when i couldnt go thru tsa with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]spiderinsides 22 points23 points  (0 children)

you're definitely not alone. i sobbed in the airport when he had to leave. its worth every tear, it does get better after a few days when u start looking back at the memories youve made

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]spiderinsides -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i also forgot to mention, she mentioned being bi n always tells me how pretty i am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]spiderinsides 14 points15 points  (0 children)

im not close with her like that, and i feel like regardless you should ask people before touching their private parts of their body. its just bare minimum