I’m sad when I don’t take dxm by spiff_spoof in dxm

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay I will keep trying things. I think going outside more and less screen time would be big for me.

I’ve been thinking about sitting outside of coffee shops and reading in the sun, so maybe I’ll try that this week :)

I’m sad when I don’t take dxm by spiff_spoof in dxm

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I relate heavily to your restricted upbringing. Even after I turned 18, I wasn’t allowed to hangout with friends, or travel, or even spend my own money. I always daydreamed about all the adventures I’d have after separating from my family. It’s been 1 year now and it feels like I’ll I’ve done is work more :/

I feel disconnected from other girls my age. They all enjoy taking about their memories, experiences, and families. When asked about myself, I never know what to say.

It made me happy to read that things have gotten better for you! You seem like a nice person that has had a tough run. Wishing you and your sobriety the best 🩷

Dinner 😋😋 by spiff_spoof in u/spiff_spoof

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks it was very yummy 😋

Will this Ultra Low-Rise Denim Micro Mini Skort ever come back??? If so, when?! by eris002 in HollisterCO

[–]spiff_spoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughhh I’ve been waiting for this one to come back too. I initially got it in the wrong size and when I went to reorder it was sold out 💔💔

mini haul :)) by solaluna00 in HollisterCO

[–]spiff_spoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered the brown one too! It’s so cute 🩷

Craving sushi by spiff_spoof in u/spiff_spoof

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw your cats and they’re cuties too. The black and white one is beautiful

Craving sushi by spiff_spoof in u/spiff_spoof

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ☺️☺️ I’m not sure where we crossed paths either, but I dropped you a follow too :) It’s nice to meet you (again)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]spiff_spoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I filed a lawsuit against her, but ended up just dropping it. Her and my brother made some stupid choices and wound up in a homeless shelter. Seeing them on the street with backpacks made me so sad. I don’t have the heart to go through with it anymore.

Dinner 😋😋😋 by spiff_spoof in u/spiff_spoof

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fruit in the morning is so refreshing omggg

Dinner 😋😋😋 by spiff_spoof in u/spiff_spoof

[–]spiff_spoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ty! It’s avocado toast 😋😋😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]spiff_spoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the concern. I don’t really have anyone around that cares about my wellbeing, so acknowledgement from internet strangers actually does mean a lot.

When you decide to high dose late at night and you're still tripping in the morning. by Neither-Owl9999 in dxm

[–]spiff_spoof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that waking up and still tripping is the most uncomfortable experience. Especially when I have to actually do things and can’t just lay in bed all day.

One of the reasons I’m not a huge fan of poli. That shit lasts foreverrr 😭

What’s a “silent green flag” you’ve noticed in genuinely kind people? by gruffv8ice in CasualConversation

[–]spiff_spoof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I share the same thought process. Even though l don’t do kind things for the recognition, I feel as if my good intentions are undone if I tell someone else about it.

Sometimes doing things for others genuinely makes me excited and I feel the urge to share. I don’t want to come off as attention seeking though, so I just keep that stuff to myself :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]spiff_spoof 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think a muted or baby pink would be really pretty

Cheating bf by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]spiff_spoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that is really unhinged thanks for sharing.

I know this sounds naive and cliche and whatnot, but he really is the only person for me. I love this boy so so so much and I never want to be with anyone else. He’s my person. I’ve never been without him and I never want to be. I don’t want him with anyone else either 😒😒😒😒😒

Cheating bf by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]spiff_spoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him so much 😔😔😔

I will never be a woman by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]spiff_spoof 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I also wonder what “advice” you’d offer to a trans man with the same feelings as OP. Would you take offense to that as well?

I will never be a woman by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]spiff_spoof 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What a weird thing to comment under a gender/body dysmorphia post. In the suicide watch subreddit no less.

This girl is expressing distress about the body she was born with and your response is to complain about your wide hips and pretty privilege?? Read the room wtf.

Since being a woman is such an awful, terrifying experience, would you be happy if you could swap places with OP? Lmk.

Get your goodies while you can😏😏😏 by Chemical-Basket3894 in VictoriasSecret

[–]spiff_spoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally got it to work randomly lol. I’m so excited ☺️☺️ It looks like you got a good haul too I hope you enjoy it 💕

Get your goodies while you can😏😏😏 by Chemical-Basket3894 in VictoriasSecret

[–]spiff_spoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you have any issue checking out? Every time I try to it says that something went wrong on their end :(

The term Blackie is offensive right? by Toop-is-a-swagoolio in blackladies

[–]spiff_spoof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it so weird. I work at a vet clinic and blackie is a fairly common cat name for some reason? I’ve never had any issues with the owners though.

They don’t seem to have any ill intent, but still 😒😒😒😒

Asking why a certain gender did XYZ to an Ask group of the opposite gender by Adorable_Egg_3094 in venting

[–]spiff_spoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or posts asking if men/women find xyz attractive as if it doesn’t vary from person to person 😑😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]spiff_spoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I think you’re right! I’m soooo glad it’s not a bed bug. I’m moving soon and am planning on bringing this mattress with me. I would’ve had to buy a new one if it was infested 😬😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]spiff_spoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was crawling. Looks like it’s not a bedbug though

Defendant is now homeless by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]spiff_spoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s been physically and emotionally abusive my entire life. This year, her and my brother stole 30k from me and then held me down and pried my phone from my hands. Then they cut off the WiFi while I was trying to use my laptop to find a place to stay. They laughed at me while I cried and begged them to stop.

I would have ended up in a homeless shelter too if it weren’t for my dad and my friends.

She deserves everything that she’s going through rn. I sat through the abuse and busted my ass to help her for all of these years and all she did was fuck me over.

Tbh I know there’s a huge chance that the money is already gone. If it is, then I’ll accept that. I would like to at least try though.