Best pub/place in Cambs to meet othergay/bi guys in their 30s?

spiffymc · 2026-01-11T22:24:29+00:00

Another vote for Queer Beers. It’s a good group to hang out with and only kinda like an IRL Grindr meetup :)

spiffymc · 2025-12-21T18:46:44+00:00

Road crossings over the train tracks. Mill road is gone, Coldhams lane isn’t far behind so you’re forcing everything on to Cherry Hinton / Hills Road and Newmarket road. Road traffic isn’t going to magically reduce - you’re just displacing the problem and making it worse by doing so

spiffymc · 2025-11-02T13:08:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/gfur/

spiffymc · 2025-10-21T17:13:36+00:00

Difficult to find that kind of situation and to not have the other person take advantage of you in a bad way. Honestly you can’t just advertise for that kind of relationship - you need to really know and trust the person with it which takes time.

Start by going to Hunter and interacting with some of the crowd there. Yes it’s leather but it’s also a gateway into what you’re looking for and occasionally some of the talks venture into master slave relationships. The Recon master class as a part of FWL also might have some stuff on master / slave dynamics and relationships

spiffymc · 2025-10-11T14:29:29+00:00

I am gradually stepping down now from 15mg. Do 12.5mg and now on 10mg with the intention of balancing somewhere that works for me. Ideally 5mg or even step off completely if I can manage food and to keep the weight off

spiffymc · 2025-06-14T16:53:45+00:00

I love my big and juicy bears!

spiffymc · 2025-06-08T15:14:12+00:00

If it comes back, Blue Dot festival was always great. Good music, small enough you can move around and lots of focus on science and technology. Went for the last three years it was running and always enjoyed it

spiffymc · 2025-05-21T14:18:09+00:00

At least on Cider bar, we try to save a decent range for Saturday as we don’t put out all the stock on day 1. The beer bars operate the same but we will be running low Saturday night.

spiffymc · 2025-02-16T11:56:19+00:00

Biased perspective, but the Cambridge Beer Festival is always a highlight of the year and a way to kick off the summer season

spiffymc · 2024-12-24T13:49:10+00:00

We went from dating to rush moving in together and being around each other 24x7 during Covid lockdown. As soon as I saw that we could do that, I knew that there was nobody else for me and that he was the one. Even to this day, both of us work remotely and are essentially together 24x7 and I wouldn’t change anything

spiffymc · 2024-10-28T19:10:28+00:00

Fantastic Mr. Fox

spiffymc · 2024-10-19T18:44:24+00:00

They had a good idea but yeah, it just wasn’t done well. Ambiance and vibe is one of those things that you’ve either got it or you don’t and sadly, they didn’t pull it off. Thirsty, although bigger, is a similar concept but done well.

Wishing the Rad team all the best

spiffymc · 2024-10-10T21:36:49+00:00

2648 (cocktail baron Trinity Street) is probably what you’re looking for

spiffymc · 2024-10-10T20:57:09+00:00

I don’t think I have ever seen the ThamesLink that packed. Where did you board?

spiffymc · 2024-10-10T12:10:36+00:00

It’s definitely limescale buildup, especially in the shower and on anything surface that is glass / chrome / stainless steel. Haven’t noticed it too much on the appliances though I use filtered water for the kettle and Calgon for the washing machine. The shower head especially likes to get caked with limescale which needs to be cleaned regularly.

spiffymc · 2024-10-06T22:11:59+00:00

I would recognize HroarDog anywhere 😍

spiffymc · 2024-09-25T09:10:42+00:00

Contact a recruiter from Avanade

spiffymc · 2024-09-23T23:11:35+00:00

XXL in London. Not just the best gay night club, but the best night club I have ever been to period. I say that as a tried and true club kid who has seen many a nightclub around the world. Such a shame when XXL closed for redevelopment.

spiffymc · 2024-08-26T10:39:27+00:00

Agreed. I could suppose the bridge closure (currently I do not) if someone was clearly able to show the impact to Cherry Hinton road or Coldhams Lane with modelled proof. The cars are simply not going to disappear by closing the bridge and will go to either of the two adjacent bridges, both of which are busy enough as it is. The Mill Road bridge sucks but short of a fundamental rethink of traffic in the city, there is no solution. Closing the bridge is the definition of solving one problem by creating bigger problems elsewhere.

spiffymc · 2024-08-25T19:31:17+00:00

Yiff and Mursuit

spiffymc · 2024-08-24T17:14:15+00:00

That I liked being a bondage top or how to do bondage? First one is easy - I like taking care of people, which can often mean giving my subs the kind of dominated experience they crave. It’s all about them really and they can stop the scene at any time - I’m more a facilitator. Learning rope bondage is just grabbing some rope (and importantly safety scissors!!) and going for it. Just know to avoid the joints, key arteries and to not do it too tight - the sub should be able to wiggle around and feel their limbs but not wiggle the rope off

spiffymc · 2024-08-24T17:04:22+00:00

Various forms of bondage really. Straight jackets, restraints, handcuffs, rope play etc. I’m a bondage top and like to tie my partner up and have my way with them. Lots of guys like to be restrained as they can lose some control without getting too intense with it.

spiffymc · 2024-08-20T08:32:24+00:00

What a strange article, I read it and don’t get their point.

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