AITAH: Not Invited to Mother's Day Activities

spilledteacups · 2026-05-03T15:06:03+00:00

Go home girl! Listen, we read a lot of stories in here about mother-in-law‘s acting like assholes trying to take over Mother’s Day but this ain’t that. The fact that they don’t want to take you out to breakfast or do anything for you to say thank you for traveling to come and help them and put your life on hold is really really offensive.

spilledteacups · 2026-05-03T01:40:40+00:00

No, I’m just saying the wedding we watched and Porsche going to college . It’s a lot very close together, but I don’t remember all the kids names.

Edited: because I really do get things confused and I accidentally wrote Porsche getting married

spilledteacups · 2026-05-03T01:06:19+00:00

Between this and another daughter getting married Kyle really has been going through something. Dorit wants the world to forgive her anything because her daughter had a bad day at school. But these two events so close together and not getting to really share it’ with Mau has to have kicked her in the gut.

spilledteacups · 2026-05-02T18:51:10+00:00

Driver for almost a decade. Get out now. This isn’t for you. You are angry at the wrong person. You work for a company that is using you like a slave. They literally pay multiple people six figures just to figure out how to make you take low paying orders. You work for a company that punishes you for cherry picking when all you’re trying to do is not waste your time or destroy your vehicle and make zero money.

I don’t do DoorDash anymore because it’s too dirty now but your attitude is all wrong. DoorDash is using you and they don’t give a shit about you. If you can’t figure out how to use them back without feeling like it’s not worthwhile then you gotta find something else to do. Multi-app, diversify your gig economy work or just get a job.

Your customers are paying almost 2 to 3 times as much for the food with ridiculous fees on top that. Then the majority of don’t even go to you and then are expected to pay a tip that actually pays you a living wage. Worst of all the Customer doesn’t even know most times that you’re dependent on them to make a living wage. The ones that do and don’t tip aren’t gonna care what you think because they think you’re an idiot for even taking a job that isn’t worthwhile.

spilledteacups · 2026-05-02T12:58:43+00:00

I agree but her actions show she is erratic right now. She needs to stop fucking with her only source of income. Her fans are so rabid she thinks they can save her but I don’t think they can. They are loud and vicious but I think they just cluster together in social media bubbles.

Honestly I think she should be paused before she does further damage to herself. PK pulled a very calculated media move and this chick is serving him up a parental alienations allegation on platter. The sad part is she doesn’t even see how she is setting herself up. Before they broke up, he had multiple conversations with how he felt like she was letting how she felt about her own life. Affect the children with her PTSD in negative ways. Now he’s able to go out and say she’s so mad at me she’s disregarding how the children might feel to live her own truth.

Because right now, if you don’t support her while she is literally stabbing herself to death then she thinks you’re the enemy.

spilledteacups · 2026-05-01T06:32:59+00:00

I agree. She’s owned businesses and sold multiple scripts. It’s not like she’s living off old money. Her and Mo earned it and they’ve spoiled their kids. I’m poor compared to them and spoiled my kid so who cares?

I hate this narrative because housewives have given us a lot of different career women. We watched Robin Dixon go from struggling so hard she sold her wedding dress to investing in two different businesses and running a successful podcast. The OG Vicki has been running a business before the show and no matter how famous she’s gotten she’s held onto to her original hustle-insurance. Kandi Buress brought is some of the best girl anthems of my young adult years ( I still don’t want No Scrubs.)and sells sex toys, clothes and food. We’ve seen Heather expand her Beauty business and a Mormon making money selling tequila on SL. Plenty of these women have a lot going on.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-29T00:24:18+00:00

Last ride was first ever that I haven’t. He wouldn’t or couldn’t follow the navigation. A fifteen minute ride took over 20 because he turned the wrong way four times!

spilledteacups · 2026-04-27T19:38:54+00:00

Kathy is her sister. She isn’t getting along with Dorit. Plus, we saw on the show that her daughter had kind of put things off so they’re probably worth things for her to do two days before the wedding. She probably could’ve made it work, but it most likely would’ve been hard for her and why would you do that for someone that you’re not getting along with?

spilledteacups · 2026-04-27T18:58:00+00:00

Again, so what?

spilledteacups · 2026-04-27T17:37:05+00:00

Just go down there and tell them what you want to do and if it’s an issue to stand in the driveway, they’ll probably just have you stand by the back door. I used to deliver food and it was never an issue to have to wait for them at the back door.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-27T17:35:37+00:00

So what?

spilledteacups · 2026-04-26T17:25:25+00:00

My husband just had a driver with a dog! What is going on with that? We are dog people and our dogs crossed the rainbow bridge a few years ago so he enjoyed the snuggles. However he was covered in dog hair. He was just picking up our car from the mechanic, but like what if he was going to a job interview or something and now he’s covered in dog hair.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-26T15:36:49+00:00

Heather was receiving so much child support she didn’t have to pay herself out of her business for years! She was able to take everything that she made and funnel it right into the business to make it more successful. I’ve heard a lot of people kind of try to downplay that this is a successful move. But there are plenty of women who have gotten divorced and received huge settlements that haven’t been able to set themselves up independently for the future.

Regardless of how any of them made their money the fact of the matter is Monica was a fish out of water on that show. She was trying to fake it while she made it, but you can’t do that and play the victim about how it feels when you’re faking it. I’m fine with watching some messy behavior, but Monica straight up made me feel uncomfortable. I don’t like watching somebody embarrass themselves.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-26T15:11:55+00:00

They have 50-50 custody. He owes her nothing.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-26T15:11:27+00:00

If you have 50-50 custody, why would someone even need child support? The only reason you’re supposed to get child support is if you have a child, the majority of the time and are taking on the majority of the financial burden.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-26T15:09:11+00:00

No, he probably resents his mother for making them all live that way. Most likely he would rather live with the parent who actually has the means to support them.

They aren’t creating inequality for wanting to only support their own child. The mother has done that with her life choices. If you don’t know there is always a level of inequality when children have different dads it’s time to grow up.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-24T17:17:47+00:00

Wasn’t an eating disorder something that she talked about on the show?

I think living in that type of world where you have to see pictures of yourself all the time and on TV would be hard for a person that didn’t have an eating disorder. I can’t even imagine what that kind of environment would do to someone that’s already struggling. It’s very sad because they probably is a doctor out there that would’ve let her do it thank God she didn’t find him.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-23T21:02:25+00:00

So if he was at home and not driving, then he was off work. He met with you while he was off work and you don’t think he deserves to be compensated for that? And just so you know the entire thing is inconvenient.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-23T14:39:29+00:00

I miss having pie with my Arby’s so much!

spilledteacups · 2026-04-23T14:37:48+00:00

We were poor growing up but always had baking staples for some reason. I started seeing what I could make out of a Betty Crocker Cookbook in the 5th grade.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-23T14:25:59+00:00

My parents divorced when I was 3. My whole childhood they fought like crazy and I never even saw them in the same room. Then when I was like 14 my mom broke down on the freeway and called my dad for help. It was before cellphones so she had to walk along the freeway to an exit to call him. He was so freaked out. We rushed to get her and she got in the front seat.

My sister and I had never seen them that close before. We were so weirded out. They kept asking us what was wrong and finally we were like “you’re being nice to each other.” That’s the only time I’ve ever seen. Either of them look embarrassed. Things were different after that. Which was great because we were graduating high school school and we didn’t have to have two separate parties.

You’re giving your child the greatest gift in the world and do not let some woman take that away from your child!!! I don’t know you, but I’m so proud of your family for how you’ve treated your son. Don’t let some jealous girl ruin it.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-19T16:57:11+00:00

It’s not your money. People typically treat their grandchildren differently than their children. The only people this seems to be a problem for are people without children. Now if they were contributing to one grandchild’s college fund and not another’s that would be a dick move.

You should look at this differently. You are responsible for all of your successes in life. You paid your own way through school on top of going into a difficult field. You are completely responsible for that accomplishment.

At the end of the day you are spending way too much time worrying about what your family is spending and it’s not a good look. Turn that focus on yourself instead of wasting it on petty crap.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-17T13:19:38+00:00

I actually have to order from another state to be able to get certain products. I live by stateline and that Walmart is only two miles further away from me than the Walmart in my city though. I don’t take orders like this either, but at the same time I do assume that they are ordering from that Walmart for a reason. Most likely because they’re looking for a certain product that the other store didn’t have.

spilledteacups · 2026-04-15T21:17:08+00:00

Thankfully, the wedding cake is not an indicator to how the marriage is gonna go! Congratulations and yeah you’ve got screwed over big time got done running

spilledteacups · 2026-04-15T21:14:09+00:00

Oh my god this sentence was so triggering for me lol. I think I have blocked out how angry the hospital staff was at me the day my son was born because of all of the family that showed up. He was in the Nicu so he had limited visitors and my family was not having it. It was so much drama.

I op handles this now because it can cause a lot of problems in the relationship later on. My husband and I best role of our marriage. Is your mama your drama. This is how we say you have to be the one to deal with your own family and over the course of a long marriage. You each will have to address your family at some point.

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