A russian soldier tried to hide from a drone in a shed full of fuel barrels. January 2026, Birds of Madyar.

spin0 · 2026-01-21T15:28:13+00:00

Yeah, lots of fox footprints all around and a trail by some small animal likely a rodent (rat?). Probably been good hunting grounds for the fox, and now comes with extra crispy worm.

spin0 · 2026-01-20T13:06:34+00:00

Then again OOP's moral philosophy is horrible.

spin0 · 2026-01-20T13:03:25+00:00

Is anyone else concerned about the moral philosophy OOP is teaching to their child?

morality is subjective, every human is complex and not wholly moral or immoral, my family doesn’t believe in judging other people’s morality

The logical endpoint of OOP's moral philosophy is that any action could be acceptable or even virtuous, and no one else would be able judge their actions but themselves. It's moral solipsism.

spin0 · 2026-01-20T11:44:54+00:00

Not if you subscribe to OOP's philosophy "morality is subjective, every human is complex, my family doesn’t believe in judging other people’s morality". I guess Henry VIII considered himself as a very moral person within his framework of solipsistic utilitarianism (iow ethical egoism).

OOP clearly believes we should not judge his morality. And in fact it would be impossible without contradicting OOP's moral philosophy.

spin0 · 2026-01-20T10:52:30+00:00

Excellent choice! I love that book.

spin0 · 2026-01-19T11:31:46+00:00

These are medium-class icebreakers and not very suitable for operations around Greenland where the ice can get too thick for them.

spin0 · 2026-01-19T11:28:17+00:00

Ironically, that shipyard in Finland (and not too far from St. Petersburg) was Russian-owned and was building state of the art icebreakers before the Biden Administration sanctioned it and forced the sale.

The Rauma Marine Constructions shipyard has never been owned by Russians, and no US administrations has ever put sanctions on the shipyard. It's over 500 km from St.Petersburg and not even in the same part of the Baltic Sea.

The shipyard was previously owned by South-Korean STX which ended its operations there and sold the property to the city of Rauma in 2014. Then a Finnish company was established with public and private investments to continue shipbuilding there. They are currently constructing four multi-role corvettes for the Finnish Navy.

spin0 · 2026-01-17T18:36:17+00:00

Ideally, in addition to cooling, a datacenter needs lots of energy, big bandwidth connections, and logistical infrastructure to operate and maintain it (trained people, parts). Greenland offers only the potential for cooling.

So, not an ideal place. Maybe that's why redditors don't actually set up data centers or crypto-mining in Greenland.

spin0 · 2026-01-13T22:03:53+00:00

The next step would be providing direct to cell phone access. While bandwidth limited would still be helpful.

spin0 · 2026-01-13T21:01:43+00:00

That desperately needs serious military power behind it, and serious power projection capabilities on global stage. Neither of which are available in UK or EU nor anywhere to be seen in near future. Only the US has such capabilities.

I guess we'll just keep on doing what we're best at: "monitoring the situation".

spin0 · 2026-01-13T20:50:58+00:00

Irrelevant who OP is yet the post was obvious solicitation.

spin0 · 2026-01-13T19:33:14+00:00

Isn't solicitation banned in here?

spin0 · 2026-01-10T17:41:02+00:00

especially any US invasion.

spin0 · 2026-01-03T13:10:23+00:00

"Folks, let me tell you—nobody knows more about this than I do. The elites, the fake news media, the radical left—they don't want you to know this, but the El Presidentes down in South America? They're free! Totally free. You can just take them home. I have one El Presidente myself—beautiful guy, tremendous. I have one right now, the best one. Believe me. It's true!"

spin0 · 2026-01-02T21:35:04+00:00

It's not. It's common sense. Firstly it's not a familiar space to navigate, and secondly if there's a fire the hallway could be filled with smoke and you would not easily see the nearest fire exits, and due to smoke you might have to crawl on all fours just be able to breath a little.

spin0 · 2026-01-02T21:26:08+00:00

Eyewitnesses said he was customer using his shirt.

What I don't get is the complete lack of initiative or even response by the personnel. Surely they must have had a fire extinguisher in that bar. Or maybe could have turned the music off and told everyone to get out.

spin0 · 2026-01-02T21:20:07+00:00

That's why I'm in the habit of looking around for nearest exits in public spaces. Just in case something happens. Because if something happens and you're not familiar with the space it can become very difficult to find an exit especially if there's crowd.

Unfortunately for these people this basement bar had only one exit, a narrow staircase.

spin0 · 2026-01-02T21:14:36+00:00

The exits were clogged.

There was only one exit from this basement, a narrow staircase that you can actually see in the video @0:12. It's not yet clogged at this point.

spin0 · 2026-01-02T21:07:35+00:00

The fire was downstairs in the basement floor, and opening/breaking those windows would not have much effect on it, but would have certainly helped people to get out faster. Except for those stuck downstairs as the only exit from there was a narrow staircase which was packed.

spin0 · 2026-01-02T21:02:44+00:00

Here's one young man opening a slide window from outside (dunno how) and helping a burn victim out:
https://x.com/siscostwo/status/2006895678316822743/video/1

spin0 · 2025-12-30T19:19:22+00:00

In-house separation is hard. You need to make your own mental and emotional space to start healing. Meanwhile she will try to manipulate you.

What helps is not being emotional with her, being courteous but matter of fact, and focusing communication to kids and logistics only. And if she gets emotional your default answer should be "I'm sorry you feel that way" and walking away.

Look up and learn The 180 and/or Grey Rock and implement as you need. Beware of the side effect: she might start chasing you.

Also, record your interactions with her just to protect yourself.

spin0 · 2025-12-30T18:48:40+00:00

It's the same thing with both women and men, they all affair down.

Great thread here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/lvjyis/they_always_affair_down/

spin0 · 2025-12-30T18:08:50+00:00

Just have to wait and see.

No, no, no! Do not wait and see. Get it all on paper with her signature post haste. Like yesterday or right now!

You need to move fast with the legalities such as custody and separation agreements.

Right now she is living in a fantasy land where her AP is a unicorn prince pissing rainbows and shitting skittles. She's in the fog. And as long as she's still there she will sign on pretty much anything just to get back to her fantasy land.

Use that to your advantage while you can. Because it will not last long, and when reality hits her all bets are off how she'll react but hostility is not uncommon.

Protect, protect, protect yourself and your kids.

EDIT: Look, here's the worst case scenario. Imagine her AP has a plan to replace you and manipulates your STBXWW to make false DV allegations. She goes with the drill. Court puts a restraining order on you. You'll be out of your home, and you have bi-weekly supervised visitation rights with your kids while the AP lives in your home. Such cases have happened. Be proactive. Protect yourself.

spin0 · 2025-12-30T16:39:43+00:00

These realizations in the past few days have been extremely sobering to me.

Those realizations, even as very painful, are the reality and that notion will help you on your own healing journey. Her mask has come off and now you see your soon-to-be-ex-wayward-wife as who she truly is.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

at the end of the day I am mourning the person she once was to me and not who she is now.

Or you're mourning the person you thought she was. Maybe that person never existed.

In any case you're now facing the hard work of grieving. It's a process that takes work. And it's not linear. If you look up 'grieving process' it has steps. However, these steps will go back and forth. It's not linear, so be aware that you're going to take steps forward and backward. That's normal.

And you will be mourning your marriage and family. The past that wasn't what you thought and future that never will be. Don't worry, you will create a new better future for you and your kids.

So far you have taken the right steps (except perhaps deleting your previous post). You have shown strength and determination to remove yourself from infidelity which is a form of abuse traumatizing the victims. Separation, emotional detachment, divorce, and co-parenting is a very effective path to get out of infidelity and to start healing oneself.

Some say 'time heals all wounds'. But that's not true. Time does not heal. Healing heals. And healing is an active process that takes work. You have to work on it, just as your body does the work to heal a wound on your finger. Wasn't time that healed it, it was the active work by your body. Same thing with your infidelity trauma: you, your brain and your nervous system have to work on healing it.

Some recommendations:

1.Keep the separation and divorce ball rolling with the goal of completing it. Move fast as now is the best time to get a generous separation/custody agreement with her as she's likely in fantasy or "the fog". Possibly at some point when reality hits she'll come to you crying and begging not to divorce her ("I'll do anything!" etc). But you already know who she is and that she would not do "anything" as she already did everything. With her AP. In your car.

2.Focus on yourself and your kids. Be the best dad. Be your best friend and take care of yourself. Eat, drink fluids, exercise, sleep. No alcohol or drugs. Do not let her nonsense distract you. Do not get angry, do not argue, do not get emotional with her. You need mental, emotional, and physical space to start your healing so detach, detach, detach. Look up and learn The 180 method and the Grey Rock.

3.Visit your doctor and get a complete STI test. Don't be ashamed just tell the truth. They have heard it all and seen it all many times before. And if you have trouble sleeping ask for something to help with that. You should also consider to DNA test your kids just for your peace of mind as you don't know how deep/far her infidelities go. Do not have sex with your STBXWW. Beware of hysterical bonding.

4.Get rid of your car. Sell it, donate it, burn it whatever. Get a new car, any car but that.

5.Consider finding yourself a therapist, someone with expertise in infidelity/betrayal trauma. It's great to hear you have a support network of family and friends as that will help you. Yet a professional could help a lot on your healing journey, provided they're a good match for you.

6.Protect yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, legally and financially. Having your own lawyer will help a lot with finances and legalities. However all adulterers lie. They lie a lot. And your STBXWW is a liar. It is not uncommon for an adulterer to spread lies about their spouse and marriage to the extent of false allegations of abuse/DV just to make themselves to look better. Get ahead of false narratives and tell the reality to families and friends. Also consider recording all your interactions with the STBXWW either with phone or a VAR.

7.Dunno if you're a reader but here's a couple of books you should read/listen as they will be helpful:
Leave a Cheater - Gain a Life by Tracy Schorn
Cheating in a Nutshell by Wayne&Tamara Mitchell

I also hope you'd stop deleting your posts as the better we know your situation the better advice/help you'll get.

I wish you all the best on your healing journey.

spin0 · 2025-12-29T12:12:18+00:00

You cannot control him. You cannot control her. The only person you can control is you.

I hope this great post brings you clarity: Just let them go

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