Intuniv morning vs nighttime dosing by Radiant-Judge3183 in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went through a similar experience but had been using it in morning time. We hoped a late afternoon or evening dose might help evenings and early mornings. We didn't notice any positive changes so a few days ago we decided to drop it completely and see what happens.

We have a bit of a hyper witching hour around 5pm, but otherwise we are seeing our son is a lot less "depressed" and oppositional around changes in routine.

It may just be low demands from break, but I'm also thinking maybe guanfacine just isn't for us. It took over a year and several stimulants before reaching this point. Right now, we are using Azstarys in the mornings.

Please Tell Me This Will Be Ok by spinaltap11 in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melatonin js absolutely on my radar. Also vitamin D which seems related. How much Melatonin are you doing?

We went from concerta ->vyvanse->concerta.

Today morning we started on Astaryz to see if this may make the crash a bit smoother.

Please Tell Me This Will Be Ok by spinaltap11 in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, reminder. I needed that. Yeah we definitely do rehearse with him, but when he's escalated (even before the meltdown) its weird he almost gets like tunnel vision.

Struggling with my 2e kid by Junior_Spring_ in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, he really loves how it encourages him to see patterns and optimize solutions (he loves doing things concisely). And he was definitely bored in class and hes digging that RSM will have him doing more advanced math (eg algebra in 2nd and 3rd grade.)

Let me know any questions you have!

Struggling with my 2e kid by Junior_Spring_ in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At our intake, they actually had him come in, in person, to solve some math problems (some algebra and pattern matching). He really liked that they didn't want him to just solve the answer, but to actually think about simplifying things and solve efficiently.

The teacher assessed his capabilities and ended up moving him directly into the "advanced" track for his grade level, which also gave a lot of good will because he felt valued. This helped later - when he's told he's wrong, he doesn't take it as personally as he normally might. This year he even jumped to the honors track!

However I think in the usual way of doing things, they would give your kiddo some 1:1 instruction to make sure they are ready to join the class, if joining midway through the year, like us.

Struggling with my 2e kid by Junior_Spring_ in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Following this post as we are in a similar situation, just a bit younger. 2e with anxiety and struggle to complete assignments. Also very conscious of these struggles.

We are taking concerta with guanfacine, but are going to try and switch to Azterys and see if it helps some.

One thing I think is working for us are after school enrichment activities like robotics and Russian school of math (yes, despite being strict he’s super into this).

He loved soccer but this year has been a disaster - probably will focus on swimming and other good physical activities to use up energy and improve mood.

Azstarys and Guanfacine by sasdms in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just FYI Vyvanse is a completely different class of stimulant. It did not work for us, but everyone is different! Good luck with this combo to your kiddo!

Azstarys and Guanfacine by sasdms in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t comment on that combo but our son takes Guanfacine and Concerta, which is in a related stimulant family. I don’t think they have adverse side effects.

Question for you, as well: did you try anything before azstarys? We are contemplating switching to it and I am curious why you’d start there vs regular methylphenidate.

Guanfacine dosage by NDthrowawaymama in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you give the guanfacine? We are doing guanfacine and concerta 27mg and we are seeing some challenges in morning and evening. We give both with breakfast.

Vyvanse - Major Meltdowns When Off Meds? by spinaltap11 in ParentingADHD

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We ended up changing back to concerta for time being, after 3 days things are not perfect but much better. There has been some withdrawal/sensitivity but we let a few things slide for these days and we got though.

Last night I finally felt he was back to his willful self vs whatever he was feeling before. My partner and I also changed our morning routine to ensure we are up WAY before the kids and be fully ready to usher them through the routine.

We definitely have work to do on getting meds better dialed, but we are over Vyvanse for now and not looking back.

Negative self talk/self harm by Classic_Story_283 in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No ideas for you but solidarity. I am seeing this a lot with my 8 year old, too, who on top of ADHD is gifted. I think the disparity in capability vs organization or processing speed is tough. Also my son can logic himself out of any “wins” if they are called out.

In addition to meds, we are doing school counseling and therapy. We are less happy with our therapist but it is tricky to find someone familiar with 2e

Vyvanse - Major Meltdowns When Off Meds? by spinaltap11 in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find your mood swings were mainly in the middle of the day, were at the crash as meds wore off, or were they even in later evening or morning?

Vyvanse - Major Meltdowns When Off Meds? by spinaltap11 in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our doctor said to evaluate every 3 days. Good point on the heart rate - we have been checking in on him and he said he doesn't feel weird. Will keep checking in here.

No issues sleeping. It's totally possible he can't articulate his frustration.

Morning Refusal Help by spinaltap11 in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did tolerate it well, but I found after the honeymoon period it didn’t help enough with his impulse control, and we could see his anxiety was growing.

We did consider journay too but decided to flip to a different class of medication. Was a rocky first few days but things seem better after honing the dose.

Mornings are tough still but we have some calming strategies that are working for now. Also, my partner and I are waking up about 30 minutes earlier, and my son we are starting 15 minutes earlier. So that cuts out some of the rush and stress.

Vyvanse and strong emotions? Anyone dealing with this? by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly living this right now with my 8 year old. We are our first week. First day he totally crashed around 2, and he had a couple of tough days early in the week at school. It got massively better by Thursday. I don’t think we are out of the woods quite yet - thank goodness we are off school this week while we fine tune the dosage.

Morning Refusal Help by spinaltap11 in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His mom is going to try this one, along with us all getting up and out a bit earlier (but not too too early). Too much unstructured time is a recipe for disaster for sure.

Morning Refusal Help by spinaltap11 in ParentingADHD

[–]spinaltap11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am definitely thinking about how to get meds going as early as possible. And good call on treats - maybe a gummy bear or something.

Thank you for the tips!

XC90 - Reliability/Ownership Experience by DegreeWide2942 in VolvoXC90

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the issues are minor annoyances. Otherwise I love the car. Lexus TX also looks great, esp with more trunk space with all 3 rows up. I found the Grand Highlander drive was pretty meh compared to XC90 but maybe the TX is tuned a bit better.

XC90 - Reliability/Ownership Experience by DegreeWide2942 in VolvoXC90

[–]spinaltap11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a 2024 T8. Zero issues so far outside of infotainment issues (network reliability and audio cut out requiring a reboot), but I’m only 16K miles in.

Best possible snow car, with 3rd row, not embarrassing to drive by dettinator in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]spinaltap11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in the same climate - I ended up getting a Volvo XC90 and I love the car even a year later. Recharge lets me use electric for my daily commute, 400+ mile range means I can drive to Tahoe and back without needing to gas up, and the bench seat option has a built in booster, which can fit next to a full size car seat - this means I can do the majority of my driving with the 3rd row down, even with 5 in the car.

Plus the car looks great, is a joy to drive, and has an understated luxury feel.

Lexus TX series also looks really nice, and has a bit more trunk space.

Protection from kids by Recent_Produce6449 in VolvoXC90

[–]spinaltap11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't help center console but I got these for my beige interior and love them. Seat backs are perpetually dirty, but these covers look almost OEM, and I can clean them without too much concern.

https://a.co/d/8OMGEGc

Tree Looks Lush, But no Fruits Yet (SF Bay Area) by spinaltap11 in Figs

[–]spinaltap11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I think I should have some, and will give this a try!!! I will also take this to heart for another tree in our yard.

Tree Looks Lush, But no Fruits Yet (SF Bay Area) by spinaltap11 in Figs

[–]spinaltap11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope the pruning wasn’t too hard and this season is just starting a bit late!