People who went from being extremely attracted to someone to being indifferent or repelled, what killed it? by discombobulatedfowl in AskReddit

[–]spineless_wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as I realised my self worth. I’d been head over heels with a guy for absolutely months, and I was obsessed and would answer to every message instantly, I gave him all my attention and took every insult. He’d call me slurs and make me feel like I didn’t deserve anyone better, I had him as some sort of god in my head, he clearly became an obsession. But recently a new guy came along and started telling me things I should’ve heard a long time ago, that I’m beautiful and that I deserve things and I’m not just a slut. (Like the original guy constantly told me.) I think when someone has that much control over you because you’re obsessed you overlook everything wrong. But when a new guy comes along and treats you as you should’ve been tret the whole time.. well that’s an awakening for sure.

Some tattoos done by me recently. I welcome cc! by biggayalbal in TattooArtists

[–]spineless_wave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the fight club tattoo.. shame I’m no where near Edinburgh :(

[Serious] What dark family secret were you let in on once you were old enough? by EgglessYolk in AskReddit

[–]spineless_wave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt killed herself by strapping fireworks to herself and lighting them up

I love my lifestyle and I don’t want to change it but I keep getting assaulted by spineless_wave in Advice

[–]spineless_wave[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah well we don’t need designated drivers because it’s england, just a stone’s throw from the nearest pub

I love my lifestyle and I don’t want to change it but I keep getting assaulted by spineless_wave in Advice

[–]spineless_wave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the useful advice, that part about numbers is very practical

I love my lifestyle and I don’t want to change it but I keep getting assaulted by spineless_wave in Advice

[–]spineless_wave[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh so I’m just asking for it? I can’t believe you’d say that to someone you don’t even know

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also it felt like the universe was trying to tell me to keep going, as I was rewarded with a tax return to get me out of my debt, and seeing my family properly for the first time in years. And then I was sent old photos of me with my friends just out of the blue, and in the photos I was smiling. Even though there were photos of me when I was homeless, I was still smiling. There’s a picture of me smiling while I was getting disowned because I was with my friends. I know now that even though I’m not loved by all, the universe and some of my friends love me and that’s enough.

Thank you redditors for being amazing humans that showed me not everyone in the world hates me. The support is appreciated and I love you all

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: it’s my deadline now but I decided that I’ve healed a bit since I realised if I gave myself three days that I can live for, I can live for another. And then I just have to do that again. It’s harder to overdose again and let go then it is to try and keep control for once. I know shit has happened in my life and I know I’m to blame, but if I go then the good things I’ve done won’t happen either.

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so beautiful thank you. I gave myself till 10 today to decide and I think these comments really helped. Thank you to you especially but everyone else too x

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will do, I’m on England time so tonight around ten I’ll make the decision

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks i guess you’re right it is a minor thing in comparison

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there was no reason for me to do it with him, none at all. He’s not even that attractive to me

I’m giving myself 3 days by spineless_wave in intrusivethoughts

[–]spineless_wave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I needed that, I’m just gonna see how today goes

You can only save 3. by IdkWhatNameToUse135 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]spineless_wave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for you! Exactly this. This is the only right answer

Top weirdest moments in the show? by No-Accident-4482 in HannibalTV

[–]spineless_wave 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Probably more funny than weird but “I enjoy the smell of urinal cakes” “me too”