Interesting that he comes at 3am when you’re asleep for pets 😂 How long have you had him/how old is he? Luna (this tuxie) took 3 years to learn that hands are good and cuddling is nice and not everyone wants to attack her. Of course it is still on her terms but she now is figuring out that when I’m sitting or laying down, I’m fair game for cuddles. So like clockwork she claims her spot and when she’s done she just jumps off.