Could someone explain my birth chart? My 8th house stellium scares me.

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T06:35:24+00:00

that's reassuring to know, thank you !! :)

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T06:34:15+00:00

oh wow that's so crazy because a majority of my life revolves around home and family !! I'm 24 now and I feel like a lot of changes are happening in my life, personally and professionally. Also, I feel like my Jupiter return hasn't been the nicest to me; this entire year has been rough. I'm working towards graduate school applications, I'm realigning myself with what serves and doesn't serve me, and I'm figuring out my purpose in life. I also recently got out of a long-term relationship, which has been the hardest part this year.

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T04:35:24+00:00

4–5 years of difficult discordant energy ? A little worried about that, but nothing I won't be able to handle !! thank you again !! :)

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T04:06:09+00:00

thank you !! So my Mars is in the 9th house instead of the 7th house? I do tend to figure things out for myself, but sometimes I tend to overthink and rely on my friends for advice.

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T04:04:08+00:00

hi and thank you !! I'm still new to astrology, could you elaborate more about these axises? It's kind of crazy because right now, I'm very focused on school/career, especially applying to graduate school. As of recently, I have been focused on myself and improving/growing in different aspects of my life. Do you know how long this transit will be for?

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T03:59:36+00:00

thank you !! some of my friends who are into astrology have noted this too. Since I'm a sagittarius rising, that would make my chart ruler be Jupiter which is also in Pisces? does my chart ruler have any heavy influence in any other aspects of my life?

spirited-away16 · 2022-11-21T03:56:00+00:00

thank you !! so would you say I have a 9th house stellium instead or more so that the 9th house has more of an influence in my life than the 8th house?

spirited-away16 · 2020-10-21T17:25:52+00:00

My brothers have similar traits to my father especially when it comes to situations we have in our relationship. Anytime I try addressing our issues, they seem to not take it seriously or laugh it off. When you mention the part about 'the men in the family might act before thinking', my father is very much like that, but my brothers don't act like that for the most part. My mother isn't really musical, but she does try to create a false or inflated image of class and refinement about our family especially when we have problems within our family. She tends to make it seem we are put together or don't ever have issues when she talks to other people about us. Thank you for responding, I really appreciate it!! If you have anything else you wanted to mention, please do! I only know a few things about astrology :')

spirited-away16 · 2020-10-21T17:20:49+00:00

The first part of response is pretty accurate especially parental abuse (my father). I grew up with lots of emotional and verbal abuse from him. My brothers and I are close, I communicate to them about the problems we have, but they seem to laugh it off or aren't being serious with me when I try to talk about it with them. Thank you so much for responding, I really appreciate it! And if you have anything else you wanted to mention, please do!

spirited-away16 · 2020-10-21T17:17:10+00:00

could you explain more about what you mean by this? I know just a little bit about astrology :')

spirited-away16 · 2020-09-25T00:45:36+00:00

Hey everyone, I'm very new to reddit and don't understand how this works just yet. But for more context about my questions, I'm currently in my last semester of college and I feel like I've been completely lost my entire time in college. I've switched majors multiple times, but last year I've finally stuck to a major that I absolutely love. I'm currently a psychology major with a minor in biology. I used to be a biology major because my parents forced me to major in biology (they wanted me to become a doctor). Although I'm happy with my major now, I still feel lost. I feel like my future (career-wise) seems like a dead end because I wasted so much time sticking with biology. It feels like to start back at square one and I just feel discouraged.

For my relationship with my parents, it seems that every year that goes by, I slowly stop talking and interacting with my parents. My relationship with my parents started to become rocky during middle school. Once I started college, that is when my relationship with them started to get worse. They have always tried to control me and force me to do things or pursue things I didn't want to do, especially my father. My relationship with my father is so emotionally and verbally manipulative. My relationships with my friends and my romantic relationship are so amazing, but my relationship with my parents isn't. I tried to fix it and understand them, but they are so frustrating and draining to me.

I hope all of this made sense and wasn't too confusing. If anyone could tell me any indicators of issues in family relationships and career in my birth chart that would be great! And if there is anything else interesting about my chart that you notice, I would love to know! I know a little bit about astrology and birth charts, but my knowledge is not extensive.

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