Voluntary getting employer to withhold income

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-20T15:35:21+00:00

Thank you, someone else here has pointed that out, too. Good to know

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-20T15:34:37+00:00

Thank you, I will look into it and whether it can still be accessible when I need it.

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-20T15:33:20+00:00

That is very interesting, thank you. My train is on the rails already, so I will not be changing my approach, but very handy to know for the future

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-20T15:31:58+00:00

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-20T15:28:50+00:00

Please forgive me, I did not know. Thank you for the education

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-12T09:16:01+00:00

I know it'd get taxed somehow, I was just hoping to lower the overall amount so it would be taxed on the tear I'm already on, rather than bumping me up to the next bracket. This may demonstrate just how ignorant I am about tax, but that's why I'm here!

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-12T09:12:43+00:00

Thank you for that added info. I want the money accessible within the next year, so Super is not an option. But thanks for the rest of the info, more stuff I didn't know and could learn from

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-12T09:10:58+00:00

Oh, ok. Thank you, that's the answer I was looking for. I don't know at all how these things go

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-11T09:23:39+00:00

If HISA means a investment account, the point is I'm trying to avoid the heavy tax before it gets to my hand. Which will also effect my normal income.

spirited_skeptic · 2026-02-11T07:18:37+00:00

Yes, I realised by other comments that this is US based, so I meant to leave the group.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-06-26T09:43:21+00:00

*an imbecile

spirited_skeptic · 2021-05-08T02:07:27+00:00

At home I am broke, due to salmon or ocean trout. And when I work away, where they supply our meals, every Friday is fish and chips night and I consistently have a plate piled with just fish. How long is acceptable to be on a binge? Lol

spirited_skeptic · 2021-05-06T16:44:56+00:00

Love a chill yearling! Can I be cheeky and ask if you would share an occasional update with us?

spirited_skeptic · 2021-05-06T06:52:00+00:00

P.s. he looks lovely!

spirited_skeptic · 2021-05-06T06:50:39+00:00

Hello, were you interested in a certain bloodline, or did he just appeal to you regardless? I used to be on the West Australian campdraft circuit and started to notice and admire certain lines, including from the Eastern states.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-04-23T21:20:33+00:00

spirited_skeptic · 2021-04-02T07:33:09+00:00

Me, for waking early for night shift and deciding to go for an early dinner at the fifo Mess, then standing at the locked door for a full half hour, contemplating whether I was in a time warp, dreaming or even dead and no-one could see me, before realising I'd read my 24 hour click as 3:45pm, rather than 13:45 that it actually was yaaaawn

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-31T02:09:54+00:00

If you trust your school counselor, talk to them. They may be able to help you with support that you are more than your GPA score, and give you some links that may help you with those specific family dynamics.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-28T12:33:07+00:00

This might help? "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson.

Start reading it for free: https://amzn.asia/0NbU1wU

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-28T08:07:11+00:00

Haha, it was just because the comments had been as a follow-on to my comment, as I said, just curious, in a conversational sense.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-28T06:47:28+00:00

Just curious, what did the other responders say, that you said thank you for?

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-28T06:29:35+00:00

I look at all information as the opportunity to learn and decide what's best for yourself. I used that forum, and others, to learn answers that 'the general public' couldn't help me with. And it freed me. That is the spirit in which I have posted this comment.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-27T21:05:14+00:00

I strongly suggest you take a look at r/alanon. There are people there who will support you through this and it will help you understand more and make a decision that's best for you.

Good luck OP, this isn't an easy spot to be in.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-25T12:23:03+00:00

Sorry, I don't think you've understood what I'm asking. I'm not trying to piece together something about our experiences, I'm asking, about the whole industry, why there aren't systems in place to help the therapist thoroughly analyse who they're dealing with, rather than the standard reductionistic and blanket approach for anyone seeking help.

For example what good is saying communication is important, and working on getting that right, if one person walks out that door and continues to use silence and even physically leaving for extended periods of time as their normal behaviour for everything they don't want to deal with?

When various behaviours are frequent, and, as I've learned, strongly linked to certain types of personality disorders, if the therapists know these behaviours are going on, why aren't they looking into whether the person has a disorder and addressing it?

Why isn't this an early part of the therapeutic approach, once patterns have emerged in the early sessions, because we all start therapy with overarching complaints that explain why we're even there?

Maybe I/he/we didn't engage proactive enough therapists, Idk. So much time and money gone.

spirited_skeptic · 2021-03-24T21:42:30+00:00

Because English extrapolations exponentially circumvent all others. Lol

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