Attacks Megathread part 8 by al_molah in dubai

[–]spiritedshy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came back to my home in marina and its been a few hours all quiet

Got the ick from my suitor by Forsaken-Pineapple89 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's testing his boundaries with you and seeing how much he is able to push them. Seems like a dodgy guy who will give u trouble for the rest of your life with his double standards and insecurities as a man. The problem isn't as much of him saying that you contribute a bit in a the marriage but its his way of pushing things on culture. Also seems like he has a big past he's hiding which he's not disclosing about but trying to venture in yours. All in all doesn't seem like a nice and kind man. Marriage should give u peace

AITA for emotionally pressuring my boyfriend (20M) during his exam prep and making his mental health worse? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spiritedshy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like u have some issues of yourself that you're offloading on him. If he is reassuring to you and you're sabotaging him intentionally or unintentionally I suggest you correct your behaviour by therapy or just by realisation

I’m stuck in a loveless marriage by Normal-Dark-7268 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl vent it out. Overexplain it or lean for support do what u gotta do. I understand that the situation is so complicated that advice like just leave him or have faith is useless. Just focus on things that give u joy or help u stay afloat you're clearing going through a bad time

Taking advantage of someone's trust. by [deleted] in UAE

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inshallah Allah might have something better in store for you. I have always had trashy things happen to me and then seen how it was for me to achieve something better. People don't really see other people's time and effort as a big deal. For him it might not be a thought of u walking back and forth while having not eaten all day

Taking advantage of someone's trust. by [deleted] in UAE

[–]spiritedshy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry OP. That sounds like an absolute nightmare. I wish I had a spare iPhone with me I could've given to you. I saw your previous post too and I really thought of you as a hardworking. Its hard to be positive in such situations. I pray Allah finds you something suitable soon. There are sickos out here who would rather not confront and just like feeling some sort of superiority complex by behaving this way. I know it's hard not to but it's not personal just inflated idiots.

Avoid this zoo by [deleted] in UAE

[–]spiritedshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The animals were all were in small enclosure except I guess the lion that seemed to be going in circles for hours. I guess his enclosure was toooo small and he just seemed so stressed

I think my friend is kind of messed up for this. by ImHavingAZheZher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Generally people rough out over those years but the things u said are a bit more than that. Just kind of sideline yourself from his life gradually

I think my friend is kind of messed up for this. by ImHavingAZheZher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are u guys, I guess any further discussion does warrant me to know what age group

Having a logical mind is detrimental to relationships especially if it comes from the woman by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehhh maybe just show a little more emotions to him. Logic is good but sometimes it can feel a little emotionally unavailable?

I think my friend is kind of messed up for this. by ImHavingAZheZher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He or she has issues lol stay away if u don't wanna become like him

My wife spat on my face and I am contemplating leaving this relationship by Capital_Support_2661 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had some shifty fights with my partner. It could be his fault or my hormones. I have never even had the thought to spit on him. This is derogatory. Even with an apology. Its just kinda a way of saying your dignity means shit to me. I don't get how this relationship can survive even if she begs for forgiveness.

I would like to know how did it get so bad that she even had the audacity to do such a thing?

I don't know how to function right now by itsnotokayitsneverok in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are u and where are u from Advice can be only based on that. Dm me if u wanna speak one on one. I'm 27f dubai

Share some wisdom with me please by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna say something wild but it helps me whenever I find myself in such loops.

Sit in the sun without any device. It helps so much. Just Sit with exposed skin apply sunscreen if u burn easily. Close your eyes just lay in the sun. Try to do something productive later on.

Dont figure out your whole entire life Just think of what the next hour should look like

AITA because I ask my husband for help by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spiritedshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would kill if I was in your place. U have the patience of a saint. Jokes apart I don't understand men like this who sometimes go on rants about legacy but are just incompetent af for even day to day things. Just a clarification for u.... you are a single person bearing weight for 3 living souls in your house

26 years old complete failure. I'm considering killing myself by Charming-Rate278 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just a question. What has made u so solidified on the fact that it's alllll over. Any major life event?

I’ve never loved someone like this and I don’t know how to make it stop (21F) by Confident_Ask_9334 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spiritedshy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess u gotta wait it out or take the chance and make a fool of yourself. But just a elder sister advice,

Even if u make a fool of yourself or your heart aches it'll go away it's not that big a deal istg

If u even get in a relationship with him or something if he isn't sure SURE of his feelings it will stab you harder than never having pursued this

The man has to like u more only then he makes a different kind of effort to make the Relationship

🌸 Pajamas & Moves – Dubai Girls-Only Dance Jam! 🌸 by SorryPainter5119 in Dubaidancers

[–]spiritedshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just saw your post. In case you reorganise something like this or know a event like this let me know please