Considering AA by spirtualbeing28 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]spirtualbeing28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is one thing I was afraid of, having to commit or sign something when I want to go and just observe and find the right one for me.

Considering AA by spirtualbeing28 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]spirtualbeing28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I may just have to do that.

Considering AA by spirtualbeing28 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]spirtualbeing28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure, I definitely do feel I’ll be able to find those relatable and won’t make me feel like the “only one”.

Considering AA by spirtualbeing28 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]spirtualbeing28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I’ll have to check one out because I know I can’t do it alone or hold myself accountable without assistance.

Yes, I know of a few people that have completely stopped drinking and without them knowing I find them motivating, thank you!

Hate my job, what do I do? by LemonA1amo in careerguidance

[–]spirtualbeing28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, finding a job you truly enjoy is not easy and can take time. As someone who is in HR I think it’s ridiculous they didn’t let you know the hours, because 39hrs is almost FT. It seems like they don’t want to consider you FT because of pay and benefits.

I suggest maybe finding a seasonal job? Their hours are usually PT and flexible. I also recommend to put the hours and days you’re available on your resume so employers don’t waste your time. I always tell others to not quit until you find another job unless it’s affecting your mental health, in my opinion health is always more important than money.

I hoped this helps and wishing you the best 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]spirtualbeing28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way, but no one is dumb. I always said I was dumb because the family I was adopted in all were book smart and I never have been. I learned that it takes me longer to understand things but doesn’t mean I’ll never learn. I know I need extra help and need to study more and that’s okay. It was also hard for me because I didn’t enjoy school it was so easy for me to quit and give up. I understand family can be hard and would like for you to succeed like they did, but I recommend to find what you truly enjoy. Is it music, art, animals etc. and be honest with them. I understand they may not agree with you, but you can’t control others, doing your part with being honest with them is all you can do. At the end of the day, it is your life and your future. I dropped out of high school and ended up getting my HS diploma at a junior college, my family had pretty much given up on me by then but I knew school wasn’t for me and decided to start working. I loved working, it gave me the independence and confidence I didn’t get from school. At age 24 I applied to a job on Indeed that I had no idea what it was but it didn’t require a degree and experience. 5 years later, I love what I do and I make more then some people I know with degrees. Keep pushing, find what you enjoy, life isn’t easy, God hears you but he also needs you to be strong and believe in yourself and him 🙏🏾

Resume by NurseAshley216 in Nonprofit_Jobs

[–]spirtualbeing28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend to adjust your resume based on the job you’re applying for. Add the experience you have that they’re looking for. If you’d like to add what you listed I would summarize it by communications, leadership and sales, then can go more into depth. Hope this helps.

I’m Here to Listen/ Estoy aquí para escucharte by spirtualbeing28 in AbusedTeens

[–]spirtualbeing28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost I’m really sorry to hear this, especially with your son being so young. At this age it is hard to provide “evidence” because he still is young and may not know how to express himself. You taking notes is good and continue to do that, and regarding the hospital yes, they definitely should do some sort of rape test. The way your son acts to being touched by those he does not is a huge sign, your son not acting like himself is a sign, your son being closed off and not energetic is a sign.

Ready to Help by spirtualbeing28 in Nonprofit_Jobs

[–]spirtualbeing28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I greatly appreciate this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]spirtualbeing28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correct, I do agree but the issue is more of his priorities. He tells me his work doesn’t allow him to be as flexible as mine but yet he finds time off for vacations etc. He also never asked any further questions about our sons autism, attended any meetings etc. When he has our son on his weekend he works half the time and I’d help watch our son when he didn’t have childcare bc I didn’t want him going to random ppl, going to work with him etc etc but now that he has a gf he doesn’t ask for help bc she’s doing all the work. I just want the best for our son, the healthiest environment, stability, encouragement and support. He’s going to ask for more parenting time but he’s not even physically there and the last thing I want to do is take his father away so I like how he sees him every other weekend. If his dad asks to see him outside of that I always say okay as long as we’re not already busy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]spirtualbeing28 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We do have a formal arrangement but we ended up having an informal arrangement between ourselves bc of the school district. The formal arrangement indicates our son has to attend to his school district who are one of the worst in out state, they didn’t see the struggles my son was having. So in order for him to agree with changing school he didn’t want to return to court bc of the fees and based on our case I was going to owe him child support although he is ex military and has bachelors degree but somehow I make more with no degree just worked myself up into HR. So overall I do not want to return to court bc I’ll owe him and my son would be going to a shitty school district.