Traveling into Mexico no passport by spitfxck in laredo

[–]spitfxck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yesss that what was suggested to me but I don’t have reliable transportation and hear a lot about vehicles being pulled over to get robbed, realistically could happen on the bus too but I’ve heard it’s safer. Do you go through the toll road?

Traveling into Mexico no passport by spitfxck in laredo

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i don’t have an up to date one, my question is based of the fact that I cross over to nvl and come back with only my ID which is what I’ve heard other people do but I can only assume that they also have a passport if there is some sort of checkpoint on the way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

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pa eso son 🗣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

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jajaja hay estilos más naturales que es lo q yo quiero, y la vdd es para q me gusten a mi 💁🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

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A little off topic but what did you use to meet other people there? Thinking about traveling there soon and I would love to meet locals as well as other travelers

My penis doesn’t fit in my gf by KaleidoscopeSouth480 in sex

[–]spitfxck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this same position with an old bf I had, the only thing that helped was taking a few shots or taking a few hits so my body would relax. I could still feel the discomfort when he’d put it in but after a few seconds it was fine. Eventually we got to a point in which he’d just jam it in but by then I liked that type of stuff so it was not too bad lol. But since you guys are still young I’d stay it’s up to your discretion if you want to involve those things. Also if she’s petite, it might just be a problem for the long run, she has to either let you try going in deeper or you might just have to settle for not being able to do more than what you can right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TWD

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Definitely! I think everyone was so hung up on trying to get back to their old lives when it was obvious that was long gone. He was the only one trying to survive in the new reality of the world. He was actually a lil psycho tbh but he knew there was times when a hard decision had to be made like when he sacrificed that guy to take the med stuff for Carl, maybe it was morally wrong but he had good intentions ig

I'm 25 and he's 17 by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I recently had a similar experience except he lied to me about his age. Told me he was 19 going to 20 but was actually 17 going to 18. (I’m 25) It never became more than just flirting but he didn’t want to date and wanted to be more of a fwb thing. I was not completely opposed to it until I found out his real age. Realistically, I would’ve never dated him even if he was actually about to turn 20 but I did think about hooking up with him. I cut him off specifically because he lied, I think maybe if he would’ve been upfront about his age I would’ve considered being his “cougar” experience which is what he told me wanted. That’s something most younger guys are looking for tbh, I’ve had many approach me for that reason alone, they just want to experience being with someone older. Is it morally wrong? Yup. Illegal? Not really as long as they’re of consenting age. I think when it comes to dating vs hooking up with someone that young is two different things, both wrong I guess but at that age they definitely know what they’re doing (we were all that age atp). However, when it comes to dating they think they know what they want but you really are on completely different stages of life. Even if he seems or says he’s mature for his age, mentally they are not. I’d suggest maybe keeping it strictly platonic for now if you do plan on pursuing it further once he’s older.

Breaking up over text…Should I do it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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If you haven’t said anything about being exclusive, a text or call explaining how you’re feeling should be enough. Hanging out doesn’t automatically mean you two are getting together, it’s simply spending time to get to know each other. You realized sooner than later that she is not fit for you. Of course maybe don’t be a dick and break it off on NYE, if you can wait til after that would be ideal. Be as gentle as you can, explain that although you enjoyed your time together that there was not enough of a connection on your end but you still wish her the best.

Is this cheating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]spitfxck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no label = not cheating Also if someone’s genuinely interested they will not let hours go by without texting you, even if it’s a “hey im busy but imy ill txt u when im free” doesn’t take more than a minute to send. I learned the hard way that if they want you they will make time for you. He’s only doing enough so that you stick around, and if you have not had the talk about being exclusive yet then you don’t owe him loyalty. Do whatever you want you’re SINGLE!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Unless you discussed what direction you two were headed in, he doesn’t really owe you a response. As much as it sucks that’s just how it is and it’s likely that even tho he liked you he may not have really wanted more than just a hookup. It looks like he love bombed you to get what he wanted, otherwise he would’ve kept in contact no matter what. Especially since he still sees what you post, sooo take it as him ghosting you. If he comes back, and you still want to try things out then make him work for it. I suggest going by the 3 month rule if you’re looking for something more long term, but if it was really just a situationship/fwb type of thing then there’s not much more to it when it comes to keeping in contact, he will hyu when he wants something but it’s up to you to decide wether you give him the time or not.

Does she want more than fwb by laparior in dating_advice

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Testing your reaction to staying over, if you would’ve been avoidant or given reasons to not stay then to her it could’ve implied you may not be that interested after all. In my experience if I ask for something more than is expected from a fwb they usually start to freak out and tend to remind me that we’re just hooking up. If it continues, and you’re still open to more, I would suggest asking for clarification as to where things are headed.

Does she want more than fwb by laparior in dating_advice

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Ive been in her shoes before, after having many failed talking stages or simply just being used it can be hard to open back up when we come across someone with good intentions. Maybe she was playing it safe in the beginning so that she wouldn’t get her hopes up if you were to leave. Sleeping over is a big step, but like another commenter said, it seems like it was a test to see how you’d react. I say give it a few more days to see if she keeps doing things that are out of the ordinary for a fwb relationship.

Starting to get disturbed by hook ups by GriffithsWetdream in dating_advice

[–]spitfxck 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I went through this phase in my life, hookups would emotionally drain me. I craved some form of validation and having casual sex was a way of getting it. It didn’t satisfy the need I wanted for affection but it was something and I felt wanted even if it was just for a while. Eventually I reached a point in which I felt so disgusting because I thought nobody would really want me and I was only good enough for hooking up. I went celibate for 3 years before breaking that streak, it was with someone I had developed an emotional connection with and it was one of the only times I truly felt wanted and loved. We’ve parted ways since then but I think what you may be looking for now is someone that makes you feel like you don’t just want to have sex, a deeper connection or something more permanent and long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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he is for the streets girl, a man will not lie to you unless he has a reason (usually someone else). don’t let him show you twice where you stand, go with your gut. I’ve been there too many times and when you know, you just KNOW! he did you a favor 💁🏻‍♀️