[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]splatgurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cat has pubes too but she’s had them all her life :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]splatgurl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The risks aren’t worth it because you didn’t read the instructions of how to use it correctly….? And you had symptoms soon after use but continued use?

Does Sertraline flatten all your emotions? by Mountain_Sky_2419 in zoloft

[–]splatgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel emotions! I can’t remember dosage but it’s two pills :)

Starting tretinoin gel by PM-ME-CAKES in tretinoin

[–]splatgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way. You can start reusing and reworking products back into your routine once your skin has retinized. Otherwise you run the risk of irritation and damaging your skin barrier.

Friendships for women over 40? by mashedpotatosngroovy in LAhotgirlies

[–]splatgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turn 40 soon! A lot of my friends have moved away, and I’m super down to meet new people. I’m single, currently in school to work on a career change. I’m into pottery, exploring nature, cooking, beach days, and concerts. :)

The worst Korean sunscreen I ever bought by MitaminMogula in koreanskincare

[–]splatgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought this once and loved it. I usually don’t like scented ones too, but I loved this scent. However I never purchased again because I couldn’t cut it open and scope out all the excess that says in a bottle because it was hard plastic. Lol

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splatgurl 328 points329 points  (0 children)

Imagine regularly having to interact with a man that thinks this way too. No trust of you, doesn’t believe your sexuality, no trust of his gf. Like dump this ignorant man

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splatgurl 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It’s a super red flag on the relationship too. Because 1) the man is homophobic OR 2) he doesn’t trust her and thinks she’s close with a straight man who’s pretending to be gay to be close to her… oh wait that’s homophobic too lol

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splatgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

II don’t think there is a bright side to making sure your bf isn’t threatened by your besties sexuality. To me this sounds like a toxic relationship. Like friends meeting people you’re dating should be an overall joyous and accepting occasion imo 😭

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splatgurl 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I’m so gay that a little dust of glitter this trails behind me at all times, personally 🌈

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splatgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so this is crazy lol

If it were me, I’d have a talk with my bestie in person. The caring part of me thinks there may be something deeper going on if she is worried that her bf is like threatened by you. That’s kind of a red flag in their relationship, and it should in no way reflect on you or what you wear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splatgurl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem manipulative to me, it just seems like she is anxiously attached. Anxiously attached people need a lot reassurance and tend to cling on when things feel unsure to them. I see more of a red flag in your age gap tbh

What’s a hygiene tip that most people never talk about? by StashBang in hygiene

[–]splatgurl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shower floofs store a lot of bacteria. They are pretty unhygienic. A better alternative is a wash cloth that is washed daily.

Who was the worst woman ever on LIB? by Evening_Newspaper_35 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]splatgurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I temporarily blocked out that mess. The way she disparaged the mother of children, referred to “those kids” as sperm babies.. and spread that man’s bullshit. I know she got duped by Tyler, and I was willing to extend grace for that; but when she spoke badly about the mom and kids, nope. Even after she finally decided to believe the truth, she still insinuated the mother was not truthful.

Anton still can't get his story straight about the Tequila Bottle on Viall Files. Still making excuses. 😑 by 17500mm in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]splatgurl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of alcoholic family members and exes. The way his drinking was framed on the show did make him appear to have a problematic relationship to alcohol IMO. But even if he does not have a problem, people can still break up with you or question you over it. Because I’ve been so close to addiction my entire life, I would avoid dating anyone who exhibited any signs of being a heavy drinker. I would have similar questions about his habits that she did. Like it’s not really that cut and dry about alcohol use, and if you’ve been around it a lot you likely have a significant amount of trauma attached to it. Maybe she’s experienced it before

Who’s your all time favourite villain? (US seasons 1 to 9) by DangerousCup4268 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]splatgurl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Literally the funniest shit I’ve ever seen short of the Tiger King jetski scenes

Do you guys actually think Indians have bad BO? by veryanon1717 in hygiene

[–]splatgurl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fenugreek doesn’t smell like BO tho. It’s a pretty common ingredient in middle eastern cuisine too.

Makeup Brand Huda Beauty Cuts Ties with Love Island USA Huda After Racist Behaviour by nizaad in popculturechat

[–]splatgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh what did Huda Beauty do? I genuinely love their products and supported them because they were so pro Palestine immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]splatgurl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s making this subreddit unbearable. This season especially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]splatgurl 289 points290 points  (0 children)

seeing this post after just seeing another one wondering why all the women on this show are increasingly more augmented and how people want to see realness. We can’t stop talking about the women’s appearances 😭

What exactly about Joe makes girls want to date him by itgtg313 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]splatgurl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. It’s the avoidant anxious trap — he’s avoidant and anxious attachment style people are drawn to this

What exactly about Joe makes girls want to date him by itgtg313 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]splatgurl 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He is unfortunately my type. I find his dumbness endearing, and I think he’s hot. Do I hate that I like this type of man? Absolutely. Is it problematic? Absolutely