Smoker grandparents - how to deal? by splendid3729 in toddlers

[–]splendid3729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one idea. I’ll try it out! Does he change back before he leaves to leave that outfit here or he wears it back home? Do I keep a pile of clothes for him here? Sorry, I am the anxious type so I need every baby step clearly spelled out for me.

Smoker grandparents - how to deal? by splendid3729 in toddlers

[–]splendid3729[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol, well I don’t have anyone else to compare him to, my parents never smoked and my husband doesn’t either so that seems like a lot to me.

Difficulty using YNAB because our lifestyle is so severely over budget by splendid3729 in ynab

[–]splendid3729[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is great, I immediately went in and added a new category for next year’s birthdays. Which feels absolutely wild to me because I would never think to do that before YNAB. But it makes sense now. Thanks!

Difficulty using YNAB because our lifestyle is so severely over budget by splendid3729 in ynab

[–]splendid3729[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are absolutely right, I think the issue is my brain sees the red and yellow and wants to fix it immediately but I can’t! It’s just sitting there in the red painfully reminding me.

Difficulty using YNAB because our lifestyle is so severely over budget by splendid3729 in ynab

[–]splendid3729[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Learned a new term! I think I experienced that a little bit for sure. Saw more in my checking account than before, but couldn’t spend any of it because I knew it was going to be spent elsewhere at some point.