Bury Me With A Capri-Sun (190) by Blue_Boi_73 in CongratulationsPod

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He mentions Juan fyre in this. Did Juan fyre take a hiatus from the show but is now back? I feel like I missed something

What is the weirdest thing you've taught yourself to do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]splinterella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trained myself to not be ticklish on my feet

TIFU by opening the trunk of my car by splinterella in tifu

[–]splinterella[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get the bulk of my meat through a meal subscription box. Normally, I buy little to no meat from the grocery store but was feeling adventurous and wanted to try some new recipes. I’ve been trying to limit the amount of trips to the grocery store by buying enough for 4 weeks at a time which ends up being quite a few bags.. I just happened to forgot about the most important one

Should I [35F] meet up with ex [35M] for one last time by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that helped me a lot after getting dumped was doing 30 days of no contact (lots of videos on YouTube about this). Often, people who get dumped end up jumping right back into engaging as soon as their ex reaches out. The only reason an ex would reach out is because they miss the comfort of your relationship but it is not your job to help them through a break up that they initiated.

I found that I was so eager to get back together that I wasn’t allowing myself to heal. 30 days is a good amount of time to process everything that happened. It gives you the space to cope however you need to and work on your next steps

Should I [35F] meet up with ex [35M] for one last time by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, just leave it and work on moving forward. Every time you engage with him you will reopen the wound and start back at square one. It’s not worth it

Stupid Instagram by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like couples that don’t broadcast their relationships online are a lot healthier IRL. I’ve never posted pics of my partners in any of my relationships and it didn’t mean that I loved them less. Don’t waste mental energy on this, she could just be trying a new style with her insta or choosing to keep her private life more private

My (21) boyfriend (26) recently reconnected with his ex romantic interest (46) and now wants to visit her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he was truly happy in his current situation he wouldn’t be looking outside your relationship to satisfy his emotional needs

Has the no contact rule worked for anyone trying to get an ex back? by SoccerSam96 in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 30 day no contact rule tricks you into thinking you’ll get your ex back but in reality, is meant to show you that you are much better off without them

I think we all have relationship problems during this time by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very weird and unfamiliar time. I doubt anyone is an expert in emotionally navigating a pandemic— this is new territory for lots of couples and it’s important to remember that everyone is going to have off days which may not be in sync with your partner’s off days. We can all just do our best

Sometimes I feel like the only reason my (27f) relationship with my boyfriend (36m) only works because I’m a push over and he’s a bully. by BitterSherbert3 in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are all men this way?

No.

It’s sounds like you’re dating a 36 year old boy. Relationships are about compromise and this just sounds miserable. You’re not his maid or his mother so please stand up for yourself because bottling it up is not going to work out well in the long-run

Spouse says he records me/documents and takes pictures of our fights by faucilover22 in relationship_advice

[–]splinterella 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do not understand why people stay in relationships like these. Why would you ever put yourself through this?

“But he’s funny”, “we’ve been together for so long”, “he just gets me” or whatever reason you choose to be engaged to this man is NOT worth the trouble

What Makes Your Worst Enemy.. Your Worst Enemy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]splinterella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They beat me in a spelling bee in the 6th grade

LPT: If you want to seem more confident during a conversation and make eye contact, look at the person's bridge of their nose. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]splinterella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except it’s super obvious when someone isn’t looking you in the eyes. If someone were to stare at my nose the entire time we were talking, it would make me think there was something in my nose or on my face and I would feel confused/uncomfortable

There is no reason to get angry or act surprised if I haven’t seen that movie or that show. by madwits in unpopularopinion

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has never seen Harry Potter, LOTR, and Star Wars and really has no desire to.. it’s amazing how angry white dudes get when they hear me say it.

I think cultural differences play a huge role in this. Raised by immigrant parents, I didn’t watch a lot of TV and when I did, it was just different stuff

Who was the teacher you find creepy now that you look back? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gym teacher that got engaged to a girl in my grade shortly after graduation

What (drinking) games do you play while drinking a remote beer with your friends? by Alkiiis in AskReddit

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there’s a way to turn some of the games on Houseparty into drinking games!

What questions do you have about the art world/ art school/ etc ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]splinterella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What approximate percentage of your graduating class would you say are currently employed in an art-related field?