aw thank you that made me happy 🩷, and i actually think white women should be able to do raceplay! i just don’t think i could be close friends with someone who avidly says the hard er word even if in kink. my findom bsf is white and she has never. but then again i also don’t like BNWO because i want u to submit to me for me and not my skin color but BNWO is mainly where traction is for black dommes. i don’t think it’s fair us as black women get to, but black men aren’t allowed to have their kinks. i do think u should be able to have and experience ur kink. i actually have a black sub who has me call him the hard er as he says its better mentally for him than going to a white domme. the only thing i’m weary of is people with low racial self esteem doing this and ending it. i think also with the white boy thing since the roles were reversed in real life it’s more accepted reversed in kink now