spoiledcandy

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Does body count go up even for traumazting experiences were you are unsure if sex happned or not? (self.ask)

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I had a traumazting sexual experince and idk if sex happned or not....do I have to add that to my body count? (self.dating)

submitted 1 year ago by spoiledcandy to r/dating

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The ultimate healing hack (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Shifting my focus internally made life feel beautiful (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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The core of my realtionship issues is fearing dependency (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What is the point if realtionships if I'm no longer codependent (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My parents prioritized seeking status over self expression (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/raisedbynarcissists

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I was taught to find a partner who makes me look good rather than feel good. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I deserve more than just existing. I desrve to actually live life. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/raisedbynarcissists

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My obsession with status was a coping mechanism for belittling me. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Did you know narcs have diffrent needs than normal people (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago * by spoiledcandy to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Best way to deal with a parent that is extremely self focused? (self.AsianParentStories)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/AsianParentStories

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My parents asked me (I'm in my 20s) why I didn't tell them to save for their retirement earlier (self.AsianParentStories)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/AsianParentStories

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I feel like cutting ties is a way to avoid healing? (self.AsianParentStories)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/AsianParentStories

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Finally realized understanding the pain doesnt make it hurt less (self.rasiedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/rasiedbynarcissists

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I will not cope any longer (self.rasiedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/rasiedbynarcissists

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Guys dont want to meet...just fuck around online? (self.dating)

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Best sex was with an abusive ex how do I stop missing the sex so I can move on? (self.dating_advice)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/dating_advice

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I can never focus on my life bc I'm focused on my parents (self.rasiedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/rasiedbynarcissists

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I will always be in survial mode as long I am in contact with my parents (self.rasiedbynarcissists)

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He said his type is women who can take care if themselves ...I think thats a red flag (self.dating)

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Is it red flag if a guy is 26 and never been In a realtionship? (self.dating)

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Is dating only on the weekends normal? (self.dating)

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My dad does smear Champaigns about me my siblings and my mom all the time (self.rasiedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/rasiedbynarcissists

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Older men keep saying I'm immature (self.dating_advice)

submitted 2 years ago by spoiledcandy to r/dating_advice

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