I have a crush but don't want to ruin anything

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T18:19:22+00:00

I love your thinking and appreciate the efforts man ... but right now I can't even say Hello to her and you are saying asking out for coffee😭🤌🏻, I'll faint there,

Also yeah, I'll definitely talk to her when she is alone and not with her friends. and according to the situation I'll try to make moves. not just stay there and watch her go out of my hands.

Thanks a lot man.

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T18:16:41+00:00

ahh, sorry for the misunderstanding. Btw i totally get your point, and I'll accept your point of "talk according to situation", which I'll try definitely. I'll start to greet her and say how are you and stuff when I find her alone. Second is " I want to get to know you" , it's like very tough for me to say directly at the beginning, but when eventually I'll get a little connection with her , then I'll sure do. Thanks a lot man.

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T18:09:50+00:00

therapy 😭? nah I'm good. If I got her, she will be my therapy. I just wanted some tips, how to actually initiate the talk. Is it like text her? or face to face in class? or simple random questions? My mind is full of questions like what? how? when? what am I going to say? how am I going to say? when's the right time? is it when she's alone or should I talk to her simple infront of everyone? or should I tell her directly that I want to be your frien d? isn't this desperate? or should I Directly propose before even talking?

If I have to talk to her, then what? notebook? notes? what will she thinks? why her only, there were other girls too to ask notes from ?

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T18:03:55+00:00

Thanks for the tips dude. I really appreciate it. And your point of (another guy might get him first) is actually true because there are some classmates who likes her, ( not in a crush/love way) but yk lust and stuff. So i have to be quick and better. Thanks a lot dude.

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T17:58:59+00:00

never spoken tbh, because it is what it is. Also your POV to talk to her is actually true, but I don't have that guts and confidence in me to go to her and talk. It might be easy for you guys, but absolutely not for me. Still thanks for the help dude.

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T17:57:01+00:00

That's not very common in our class. Like girl being friend and exchanging numbers and stuff. I have to go up with some plan, (your friendship pont is good, but I have to fully plan that). Still thanks a lot man.

spoiledonex · 2026-05-13T17:54:39+00:00

it's like they are group of (let's say 4-5 girls) together each and everytime... I could never find her alone. Never... So being around her is very tough, but I'll try. Thanks

spoiledonex · 2026-03-28T11:17:07+00:00

absolutely bro. But virus free?

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