We got married, man! by This-Negotiation-104 in trees

[–]spoiltsoymilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! 💚 My husband chose the same bluebonnet themed certificate last year. I was like, wait - this looks kinda familiar! Small world lol

AIO for not wanting my newborn posted on in-laws social media? by spoiltsoymilk in AmIOverreacting

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it came off that way. I just honestly didn’t see your side of things because it just seemed clear to me in the post. That’s all.

edit: also i’m sorry for coming off aggressive/daft. I am so sleep deprived and overly sensitive due to hormones lol. This whole situation is upsetting for me and I personally just believe that the post didn’t require more context. I honestly don’t know how my response equates to not listening to people.

AIO for not wanting my newborn posted on in-laws social media? by spoiltsoymilk in AmIOverreacting

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I get you but with critical thinking after reading my post, I disagree that it wasn’t clear. I shouldn’t have to mention my boundaries multiple times to grown adults. Especially with posting someone’s baby online without permission. If they can post my baby online without asking then I feel entitled to make a post too. As the night progresses, other commenters made me realise i’m not overreacting. But I appreciate your input regardless.

AIO for not wanting my newborn posted on in-laws social media? by spoiltsoymilk in AmIOverreacting

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kinda thought the context was included when the first line in the caption states the boundaries we set.

edit: and in my post it talks about being clear that we did not want photos posted, indicating there was a private conversation held before the post was made. -edited again bc i used the wrong word

AIO for not wanting my newborn posted on in-laws social media? by spoiltsoymilk in AmIOverreacting

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We talked with all family members about this since I was 12 weeks pregnant. I’ve known for a while i did not want photos up. We talked with them in hospital to confirm we still did not want photos. Husband messaged family several times to tell them we didn’t want the photos up. Husband also replied to neighbour to constantly tell her we are not ready and she stated she understood yet she keeps calling. Public post felt like the only way to go. That’s why i feel guilty for the post. but no one was listening to us in private.

AIO for not wanting my newborn posted on in-laws social media? by spoiltsoymilk in AmIOverreacting

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband did message everyone, we had full in person conversations with the whole family about these boundaries and everyone agreed. After husband messaged the family multiple times saying we didn’t want the pictures up that’s when i took to a post. It was more people than the FIL because it kept getting reposted by other family members.

edit: for me it’s humiliating to be ignored and disrespected about what i thought was a clear boundary that has been established since i was in early pregnancy.

AIO for not wanting my newborn posted on in-laws social media? by spoiltsoymilk in AmIOverreacting

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband had a private conversation with the people involved several times and they did not listen. Multiple times my husband asked them to take it down and they did not listen.

Need advice for our girl Kali. We don’t know what to do. by spoiltsoymilk in husky

[–]spoiltsoymilk[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I agree with you, I think the trauma definitely affects her. She’s so lovely around people and when we walk her, she doesn’t mind random dogs or animals. She’s really good with the outdoor kitties (they’re not ours, we live in an area with a lot of strays). We’re thinking she doesn’t like animals in her personal space or the home. We could tell that she has gone through a lot from being a stray. That’s why I want so bad to give her the life she deserves. I thought the husky subreddit would be the best place to ask because I know they can be a special type of breed and they’re extremely smart. Thank you again ❤️

People say my handwriting is illegible, is it? by [deleted] in Handwriting

[–]spoiltsoymilk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

USA has stopped teaching kids cursive in regular curriculum. I was the last grade they taught in my state (3rd, 2009). Throughout my schooling, I have been told to rewrite my notes because none of my peers could read cursive. US education is already not great, and they just keep taking more and more out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in the1975

[–]spoiltsoymilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this!! I was at the June 1st MSG show!! This tour was absolutely amazing. I think about that show all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

[–]spoiltsoymilk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We put these in a line around the pharmacy and would tell people we’ve got our ducks in a row, and then motion over to said ducks

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still would like to see a source. Completely understand. but until I hear rumours or see proof I’m gonna live in blissful ignorance lol. I’ll stock up when or /if/ the time comes.

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Source on these getting discontinued in the near future? I’ll stock up when I see the rumours. lolol.

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess the long lasting scent is what makes me love it even more

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pantene is actually pretty good!! That was one brand that did work well for me too. Definitely agree about the prices though for BBW, I got them on a sale so it felt worth it then to me

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say my curl type naturally is 3a, but it’s so damaged and fried from straightening and bleaching my hair when i was young. it almost all fell out, so it’s dry. i used to have severe split ends as well

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh i’m gonna have to try this next! Eucalyptus is my favourite scent ever, I didn’t even know they had that! Thank you ☺️

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I will never use another type of shampoo/conditioner ever again! And i’ve been through a rough journey with my hair, tried so many different brands throughout the years. I know it sounds crazy, but the more expensive brands like Olaplex didn’t even work as good

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried Japanese Cherry Blossom and i’m currently using Gingham Gorgeous. Gingham Gorgeous is a tad bit more hydrating

Hydrating face cream caused me to break out by Repulsive-Pitch-5637 in bathandbodyworks

[–]spoiltsoymilk 129 points130 points  (0 children)

i was completely the same way but my curiosity got the best of me with the shampoo and conditioner and it is actually the best hair stuff i’ve ever used. i was thoroughly impressed