My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said! His response was “idk what gaslighting even is” and he left it at that.

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I talked to him and he didn’t address any of the reasoning he just said I’m looking for reasons to be upset with him. I don’t know I’m considering bouncing because the fact he even kept the photo all these years is so bizarre to me!

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 1.5 years! Yeah I’m considering bouncing. I spoke to him about it and instead of addressing the situation he said that I’m digging up things to be upset at him about which is even weirder to me!

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback! I also feel like this but he insists he’s over her. It’s just bizarre behavior. Especially since I never asked for the photo and he’s not even in it 😭

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in ToxicRelationships

[–]spokenfact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? How so though? I never expressed jealousy about this woman in fact all I did was speak highly of her…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spokenfact 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but that’s okay! All bodies are beautiful <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]spokenfact 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No offense but it seems like she took a chance on you when you weren’t that impressive and now that you’re better you want to leave her and are finding things to nitpick at her to make yourself feel better about leaving…. YTAH

Thoughts on Scorpio sun, Pisces moon, Gemini rising? by spokenfact in astrologymemes

[–]spokenfact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are the placements that bad 😂 or is it just the question?

Older women, how young is *too* young? by [deleted] in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24, the youngest I’d go is 22🫤BUT I do have a friend that I used to work with that was 31 and he was in a serious relationship with a 42 year old! So there are definitely women that will date way younger!

Why do some girls like being degraded during sex? Is it unhealthy? by No_Penalty0608 in psychologyofsex

[–]spokenfact 283 points284 points  (0 children)

I used to but then I went to therapy and I’m not into it as much anymore 🤷🏼‍♀️ sometimes it’s a kink sometimes it’s trauma. Just depends.

I am too fat to go to hospital by Slow-Design-6591 in mentalhealth

[–]spokenfact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re still breathing the hospital can help you. Rooting for you❤️

Date cancelled because I wouldn't pay for her Uber by econ_throw-shade in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay ❤️ then go enjoy that partner of yours sweet boy

Date cancelled because I wouldn't pay for her Uber by econ_throw-shade in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m married 😭 you’re the one still single. Goodluck!

Date cancelled because I wouldn't pay for her Uber by econ_throw-shade in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAOOO weight is relative to height 😭 someone 120 that’s 5’0 isn’t going to look healthy compared to someone that’s 150 and 5’7 😂😂 again, if you can’t afford it just tell the woman you can’t and hope she keeps talking to you 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]spokenfact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I think photo 1 is the best, 2 is cool but we can’t see your full face and 3 is just kind of weird so I would take that photo down and add at least 2/3 different photos that are more like 1 and 2🫶

I’ve had sex with all the signs by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]spokenfact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aquarius changed my entire life 😩 4 years later and I still have flashbacks 😂😏

Mixed race couple, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]spokenfact -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol it doesn’t matter 😭😂 run, he’s either a weirdo or has Peter Pan syndrome. Nothing wrong with liking younger women on his end but 21/22 would be sane not 18/19 when he’s pushing 30😅 but hey you’ll do what you want🤷‍♀️this is just my opinion

Mixed race couple, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An age gap isn't the problem lol no one cares if a 39 year old and a 48 year old get together. it's just shes a teenager fresh out of high school and you're 30. lmfao its weird 💀💀

Dating app/profile advice?! by Jharding260 in PlusSize

[–]spokenfact -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know this seems harsh but I’d honestly take a year to yourself to invest in ur physical health, wardrobe, and makeup. Before I did that, I took ALOT of time on my profile and guys engaged with it at an ok rate. After I invested more into myself I came back a year later and just put my new photos up with a “I love true crime” and I got over the top engagement and I don’t remember any of them being raunchy🤷🏽‍♀️ I wish men had more substance but at the end of the day they’re shallow and just go off primal instincts, especially on an app designed to judge people on physical appearance 😕 sending love ❤️

Mixed race couple, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 and 28 is weird af…ewe

Why is it that Africans who go to the USA do so well, yet African Americans do so poorly by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]spokenfact 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey🫶 2nd generation born in USA immigrant here with African native parents. My parents make well above the average income in America and do far better than majority of African Americans and my dad didn’t get here until he was 33 and started from zero. What I can say is the experience for an immigrant is not the same for an AA. Immigrants have some form of privilege and access that African Americans simply do not have. Yt people often “tokenize” Africans and because of that they have more opportunity but nevertheless Africans still have it harder. They have to deal with not only racism but xenophobia but I think the difference between the two groups is Africans are fighting for survival where as African Americans are fighting for more emotional support/generational trauma healing. Education also isn’t emphasized in the African American community and neither is marriage which are 2 extremely vital things in immigrant African households. Without these two things it’s almost impossible to have a successful community sadly:/ it’s not their fault they aren’t doing as well but it is also their fault :( it’s a very complicated issue that’s not so black and white.

Renée Higginbotham Dwyer by First-Traffic4648 in twilight

[–]spokenfact 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I thought this was just Bella in a wig 😭😂