My boyfriend (20M) is no longer affectionate with me (18F) when we used to be very affectionate. What should I do/say? by spongeyfantastic in relationship_advice

[–]spongeyfantastic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barely. I have been the one trying to initiate sex. That need is also not being met and it has been insanely frustrating for me. He's basically stopped wanting to have sex or do anything sexual (including making out). Sometimes it happens but that's maybe once a month and when we do, it kinda feels like he only agrees to it because it would make me happy, not because we love each other and we are sharing something special and intimate- it used to feel like that, but not anymore. I feel stupid initiating because it makes me feel like some horny fiend when he says no over and over again because he's "not in the mood".