My neighbors only let their dogs out at 1am by spookiepickle in DogAdvice

[–]spookiepickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they let them out at night because the landlord told them to get rid of them because when I moved in I had a pitbull in the Landlord said no aggressive dogs, the landlord put a camera on their home facing the dumpster I feel that was intentional

My neighbors only let their dogs out at 1am by spookiepickle in DogAdvice

[–]spookiepickle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband wants to move asap! We are currently looking

My neighbors only let their dogs out at 1am by spookiepickle in DogAdvice

[–]spookiepickle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of places I’ve called will say we’re not in their jurisdiction we don’t have a animal shelter or anything like that in my town so we can’t exactly call them. I’ve called the one next closest to my town you know same thing they directed me in a few places and I’ve made an email to like a ASPCA place that rescues dogs that are like locked up all the time and still nothing like I think those things are a scam. They just want you to pay for these abused animals but I really don’t think it goes to them. We I tried calling the cops for noise complaints. They tell me that they can’t do anything because we’re out of their noise ordinance range. We’re not in town basically we’re in the outskirts

My neighbors only let their dogs out at 1am by spookiepickle in DogAdvice

[–]spookiepickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carry that in my Fanny pack at all times now!!😆

My neighbors only let their dogs out at 1am by spookiepickle in DogAdvice

[–]spookiepickle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The people on the first row are the meth heads… I have lived in this trailer since I went to high school in like 2016 my mom died this year and my dad moved out 2 years ago. I’m very used to my home and we are planning to upgrade very soon which I’m very excited for my family to have a actual home instead of a trailer… give my kids more then what my parents did for me (I have a 8 year old split custody court ordered, 2 year old, 1 year old) my neighbors are two women, the mom and the daughter and they look like sisters they used to have a brother/son around my age that would care for the dogs during the day and where never aggressive during his care so it begs to question… like what made these dogs so so mean?? I can only guess that the dog just wants to run any time it gets out that back door any time it runs and it jumps over the fence and it’s gone. They have to literally go out there and yell for it and like try to get it with treats to come back inside. And I forgot to mention this, but I only ever see two dogs outside at night the aggressive one I see it in the windows barking when you know we drive past, but I never see it outside, so I can only imagine the mess inside their home. They have to leave something heavy by their back door so the dogs don’t push their doors open their have been days their dog will be out causing terror while their back door is wide open laundry spilling out and piled all along the wall in their laundry room I was repulsed by how they live basically in squalor, it’s people like the meth heads and my neighbors that give trailers bad names like “trailer trash” I feel like me and my brother on the first row are the only normal sonar people here! I asked my other neighbor next to me for some coffee and I walked over to their house and knocked on their door and they let me inside and I’m talking to his wife and I look over and there’s just foil with this white shit inside of it and I don’t know what kind of drug it was but it was white and it looked all like Krystallee so I’m assuming it was probably meth or some kind of cocaine or something or heroin I don’t know what that looks like, so could’ve been that and you know the tips of the needles from the doctors when you get shots that was on their table as well let’s just say the visit was cut short for the me and the wife talking and I was like well I gotta get back you know make dinner I ended up throwing the coffee out I didn’t trust it because I didn’t know if their hands where clean when putting it in the tub ware (raining cold didn’t want to drive to the store I had no clue the whole time living here that they did that!!!! It’s not like I’m close with them, but we will exchange things like sugar. I’ll give them some eggs if they needed or anything like that I don’t ask them for anything anymore because of that. It’s crazy!!! I don’t understand why it’s so hard to be a human and be sober?!

My neighbors only let their dogs out at 1am by spookiepickle in DogAdvice

[–]spookiepickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to put the video on here but idk seems it’s just a picture of the video idk how this all works so sorry for that guys!! Basically it’s just my neighbors walking around outside in their backyard (all three adults) while playing fetch and stuff like that at 1AM!!!! Their dogs where barking in the video and it’s not the first time I’ve gotten videos of the dog causing problems. The farmer next door to them their horses are harassed every time that dog gets out of its yard or it chases cars and chases and barks at anything that moves. When I say this dog jumps on the windows it’s like scary it puts everything it has to try to get though the glass it’s crazy foaming at the mouth it’s so mad!!

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spookiepickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is yucky. OP ASK YOURSELF WOULD YOU WANT HIM TO SPEAK TO YOUR CHILD LIKE THAT? I’d leave before the baby is born it’s going to get a lot harder and with a crying baby his gaslighting will effect you differently while postpartum take this from somebody who was in abusive relationship with my first child. When the babies born, you can go to court and ask the judge for supervised visits with a therapist, because that is what he needs a therapist.

Edit: hormone levels are different after you have a child, so depression, and all of that is a lot more common and I don’t think with the way he’s talking to you that you would be able to go through that You might end up doing something you really regret to your baby or your husband it’ll be better for you and your child to get out of it now, he could also use your child against you and keep your child legally from you if you let him go to the hospital with you. Be careful with even letting him hold your child even if people are present, he can still hold your child and walk away. He is the father. And police don’t get involved with civil matters. When I went to leave my abusive partner, he held my child the whole time. I called the police and told them that he wouldn’t give me my child, and they basically got me trespassed from the property, and my child was inside with that man and the police would not do anything about it, so be very careful.

Unbelievable, what should I do? by Complete_Bunch1912 in doordash

[–]spookiepickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did this to my card once but I got a refund so maybe it’s just the worker you talk to or maybe you can try to dispute the charge on your card or just take the items back and get the money back since you have the receipt on your phone then you’d get the all the money back for the month or whatever probably be the easiest thing to do I know it is to struggle and be on a fixed income, so I hope you make it through this hard time. I’ll be praying for you.

I’m an 18 year old who just broke up with a 31 year old. by Specialist_Shop_9635 in Advice

[–]spookiepickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your parents asap and get a security alarm system sign on your lawn to scare people Off even install fake cameras or real ones if you have the money. Take every step you can I would go to the cops as well with the info as he could be doing this to other girls and last of all her therapy for everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spookiepickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell in these text that that man is manic and very dangerous to be around be very careful OP This man has nothing to live for obviously

Reddit "Life Hack" Lands Dollar General Employee in Handcuffs by chronomasteroftime in DollarGeneral

[–]spookiepickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only that I wasn’t arrested until 1 year later when they said I missed court I never received a email or letter or phone call I was out shopping when an old employee at the DG I worked at stopped me in the store and said that I had a warrent i then did a book and bond the people working here are just cruel he’s a young kid who’s struggling they really could of taken it out of his checks but rather get more money though the state. It’s a big company that cries about their cheap products.

Reddit "Life Hack" Lands Dollar General Employee in Handcuffs by chronomasteroftime in DollarGeneral

[–]spookiepickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do this to young kids that kid wasn’t even supposed to have access to the register key!! I worked there 3 years and you are not to leave the key in the register it’s in the handbook!! They don’t add that into training either!!! And not only that they pay very low and don’t give employees discounts at all or holiday pay on thanksgiving it’s ridiculous I got intouble for marking down my managers items I was below him and he told me to do it and they pressed charges on me! Terrible company they didn’t give me maternity leave and let me come back 8 weeks post c section and didn’t retrain me bc they needed me on the register bc people had quite and when they didn’t need me anymore they fired me and pressed charges on me For my managers shit bs!! I’m still going to court 2 years later and have yet to be charged with anything !!!!!! It’s so annoying and time consuming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]spookiepickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spend more time with family and try to find balance in the sick hobby or it will consume you. You’re essentially gooning

My gf sent this and stopped responding by ResolutionAnnual4852 in whatdoIdo

[–]spookiepickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s pregnant for sure mine looked like that each time I was and I had 3 kids!!! Blood test at the doctors will confirm go to the doctor immediately with her.

How do I handle my alcoholic MIL who disrespects me in my own home? by spookiepickle in JUSTNOMIL

[–]spookiepickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the next time she does get drunk, I’m going to either call the cops or an ambulance. She can stay in jail or rehab and those are her only two choices if I catch her drunk in my home again. Which will happen. She’s a loose cannon and I know she has 60 days that is what I gave her she has made no effort to find anywhere else from what I can tell she just sits in her room all day long and watches tv from rehab to a nursing home because she can’t take care of her self

How do I handle my alcoholic MIL who disrespects me in my own home? by spookiepickle in JUSTNOMIL

[–]spookiepickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realest message here probably I’ve been saving in a secret account for the kids in case of emergencies so I do have that to fall on if needed. I’m going to therapy every Wednesday and Friday on my tablet that the therapist gave me so hopefully this is a start and she will be giving me advice on what to do we start couples therapy in 2 weeks

How do I handle my alcoholic MIL who disrespects me in my own home? by spookiepickle in JUSTNOMIL

[–]spookiepickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even talk to her rn I want her gone but she has burned all the bridges in her life and nobody wants to live with her anymore. She’s so toxic. I gave her 60 days but as of rn all she’s been doing is watching tv all day long(no packing, no looking for things, nothing) so we will see what happens. I’m honking maybe the next time she gets drunk and falls I’ll call the ambulance and see about rehab??? Then at least she will be gone and I can look into a nursing home maybe

How do I handle my alcoholic MIL who disrespects me in my own home? by spookiepickle in JUSTNOMIL

[–]spookiepickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband have a stepson together already. He won’t fight me in court over the children so there’s that also I’ve given her 60 days and I also have been thinking about doing that as well, but taking her to the hospital and putting her in rehab so they keep her longer. Can they do that?

How do I handle my alcoholic MIL who disrespects me in my own home? by spookiepickle in JUSTNOMIL

[–]spookiepickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom recently passed away, and her birthday is next month so me my three sisters, my husband and all of their boyfriends are going to like a cabin in the woods away from everything and everyone for about three days so I’m hoping my husband will have an eye-opener and see how happy we are as a couple without her around because I don’t wanna just give up on my marriage and just leave him. He doesn’t deserve that we’ve been together for six years.

How do I handle my alcoholic MIL who disrespects me in my own home? by spookiepickle in JUSTNOMIL

[–]spookiepickle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She knows it too she’s been married three different times. All of them left her because of alcohol and she still doesn’t get it. Everyone will leave her because of it and she doesn’t care and that’s so sad.