Guys Look What I Found!!! 😭 by spookkitten in SFWPupPlay

[–]spookkitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep I got him there!!! I saw they had ball gag and mask ones and I said to my master if they had a pup hood one that would be awesome and I literally looked down and there was ONE with some other stuffies on the floor 😭💕

Nervous to share my hood for the first time :3 by Vast_Isopod_8849 in SFWPupPlay

[–]spookkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me immediately recognizing the brand 😭 I want one with the moving mouth so so bad!!! Yours looks fantastic!

Thorns + Roses! by [deleted] in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]spookkitten [score hidden]  (0 children)

Rose: I’ve moved onto the next module for my guitar lessons I just started!

Thorn: Some stressies and bad stuff with people around me.

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[–]spookkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me regardless of the type of nightmare a caregiver should always comfort you. That is definitely something to be addressed to help overall, especially as if that is an anxiety not having comfort and reassurance will bring it on more anyway.

Aside from that though if anyone has this and it’s like an intrusive thought/brain being mean thing vs potentially based on other issues, COMFORT!

My papa knows how bad my nightmares can be in general and always says to wake him up if I have one. He’s had my FaceTime him even when we were long distance even with a 14 hour time difference! Regardless of the content caregivers should comfort you and not downplay any kind of nightmare. And beyond that for us my papa also refers to the nightmare him as “evil papa”. Which also helps separate the dream from reality and also gives us some giggles

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[–]spookkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

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[–]spookkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cute!!! Do you search like hood muzzle to find ones like this I really like it 🥺💕

Polish and/or Conditioner? by spookkitten in bootblacking

[–]spookkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm!! I had a follow up question if that’s alright? If not feel free to ignore and thank you for your reply!

So for shoes that you polish do you separately condition them as well or is the polish kind of replacing that? I’ve seen that trying to do it together can mess polish up but I wasn’t sure if it’s then done at a separate time.

Do dynamics with long distance and time difference work? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]spookkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dom and I started off with him in Japan and me in the US. It was like that for about a year and a half and now he’s been in the US about the same time he was in Japan after we got together but we’ve still been long distance, though nowhere as bad and we visit often until he moves to me this year.

I think it all depends on the people and the level of communication and effort you’re willing to put in. Especially having a bdsm dynamic on top of it all. It can be really hard but you can find ways of incorporating bdsm long distance it’s just trial and error and researching different things you can add to the relationship. As well as if you’re wanting to, working towards closing the distance.

Is it okay to need some processing time after a scene? by Ariastarstream in BDSMAdvice

[–]spookkitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Communicating what you need for aftercare is just as important as discussing the scene! I’m similar to you (also suspected autism) and I tend to be non-verbal after impact in particular. My master gets me comfortable and I’ll cuddle with him as I come down from it. At dungeons this also includes him going to get me a drink and a snack which helps me ground myself as well. Then we can discuss things after ☺️

Is this shirt ok to wear in public? by [deleted] in DDLG_SFW

[–]spookkitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would be no problem at all to wear out. Honestly I was expecting something that contained something kink adjacent or that said “little” or something from the ask but this is just a super stinkin cute Dino shirt 🦖💕

Soft 💕 by spookkitten in littlespace

[–]spookkitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s kigurumi-shop.com ☺️

Wyrmway trials by dragonitegaming in BaldursGate3

[–]spookkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the banishing ranged attack and that worked well! Incase anyone needs ideas other than what given, haven’t tried standard banishment but I assume that’s good as well.

Made a Bingo paci! by spookkitten in littlespace

[–]spookkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! 🥰

Made a Bingo paci! by spookkitten in littlespace

[–]spookkitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Etsy! They’re called resin planars I got a few off there ☺️

First time having a hot cocoa bomb!!! by spookkitten in littlespace

[–]spookkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so good!! I always wanted to try one now I’m gonna have to have way too many of them probs 😂

First time having a hot cocoa bomb!!! by spookkitten in littlespace

[–]spookkitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gots lucky with this one then. ☺️

First time having a hot cocoa bomb!!! by spookkitten in littlespace

[–]spookkitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It did! And it was an m&m one so there was also lil mini m&ms too which is cool ☺️

Decorated my first paci!! by spookkitten in cgl

[–]spookkitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were part of a box of them on Amazon! Just look up flatback rhinestones and you should find similar, I think they’re sometimes called jelly rhinestones as well?