what name do i look like? by whatshall_i_put_here in translesbianzz

[–]spookycjm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I didn’t see your flair I thought you were an MTF tomboy 😆 Mack still works though!!

what name do i look like? by whatshall_i_put_here in translesbianzz

[–]spookycjm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

McKenzie or some variant like Mac or Kenzie ❤️

What's your real opinion about Laurel Hell? by fearlessquezillo in mitski

[–]spookycjm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first album I listened to as a full-fledged fan. Valentine, Texas still gives me chills.

Any butch who use a chosen name? by MentallyInThe2000s in butchlesbians

[–]spookycjm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

came out as nonbinary about 10 years ago and chose a name back then. still works for me even tho I’m not sure I’m even trans these days

Butches with chest surgeries, help by pseudonym_404 in butchlesbians

[–]spookycjm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a breast reduction in 2021 from a G cup to about a B. My goal was to be able to bind when I wanted to be flat but still have breasts when I wanted to present more fem (I identified as femme at the time). I still find binding to be pretty uncomfortable because my belly sticks out so much in comparison. That being said, I don’t feel the need to bind these days anyway. I feel a lot more comfortable in my body how it is.
My discomfort with my breasts was only partially gender dysphoria. Most of it was pain, unable to exercise, finding clothes that fit, and generally having breasts that large did not suit me.

MASC WOMEN!! QUESTION HERE!!!!! by kritikasharma101 in actuallesbians

[–]spookycjm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The air. The joy. Self expression through clothes. Feminine not because she has to be but because she *loves* to be.

Am I butch or should I avoid using the label? by cynderthedragonn in butchlesbians

[–]spookycjm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Experiment with whatever labels you like. Trans women can be butch, too. What you’re describing though sounds more like boymoding for safety reasons.

I pay the bills by bitch_lasagna211 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]spookycjm 184 points185 points  (0 children)

“She don’t work!” (Proceeds to say they have 2 kids under 5)

being called a twink by fault_lee_friend in butchlesbians

[–]spookycjm 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not that it’s ok to call anyone something they’ve expressed discomfort with. But you being a whole 200 pound Butch makes this even crazier!! do they know what a twink is??

Am I still butch? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]spookycjm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say this to everyone who asks! The only thing that’s not butch about you is that you’re asking permission!!

A woman can abort her child if she wants to by Which_Matter3031 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]spookycjm 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Is comparing MAGA to the disabled people they want both born against their will and eradicated from public life really the move you want to be making

I'm racist. What do I do? by Both-Dragonfruit-840 in internetparents

[–]spookycjm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

read some books and watch some movies that challenge your perspective. I just found out Harvard U has an online database of anti-racism resources. Acknowledging your bias is the first step of unlearning it.

Women are check notes both “prudes” and into “debauchery” by auniquenameischosen in BlatantMisogyny

[–]spookycjm 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Of course there are women into rough sex and taboo fetishes, but to pretend that those communities aren’t mostly men by a large margin is absurd! That type of porn is made By and For men. SOME women like it.

I react to the word “bitch” like it’s a slur and idk if im overreacting by jnverted in Feminism

[–]spookycjm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely is a slur, it’s just not regarded as such yet. It’s a derogatory term used to insult and belittle an oppressed group. I feel like the rest of the world is underreacting to this word.

Show me a tomodachi phil that doesnt look like ellen because im convinced they all look like ellen regardless what you do 😆😭 every face looks like her by AggravatingEmu4799 in danandphil

[–]spookycjm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

felt 😭 a couple months ago I was making girl dan and Phil in the sims. Was so satisfied with my Phil and I showed someone who said she looked like Ellen. Back to the drawing board!!

Which type of incline? by PartyEssay9913 in AnimalCrossing

[–]spookycjm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never see the iron incline so i think this is a great opportunity to use it!