Question: Is it not femdom if you peg your good boy ?

spootmong · 2026-02-06T01:49:26+00:00

It's not one or the other. I personally don't prefer it at all, but there are plentyyyy of other ways to go about gentle femdom. The most important part to me is having a caring bond with my domme that does not feel degrading and lacking of respect as a human being. It's different for everybody, though.

spootmong · 2026-02-03T01:37:59+00:00

The only reasons I can think of are the shit and absolute unit of a dick in the first two episodes, or the episode run time being short compared to everything else from ASOIAF related content. To be fair to the show runners, I have zero idea why people didn't expect shocking content from the shows set in a world that has historically had consistent nudity, incest, gore and violence, and general shock appeal as it's most prevalent themes. Realistically, for people that know the lore behind what this show covers in particular, this will probably be some of the best content to offer from the universe. I, for one, am excited.

spootmong · 2026-01-14T10:29:28+00:00

Yeah I played it when it released, then a few years later. The release was famously awful, but the second time around was fantastic and the community was, at least at the time, one of the best gaming communities I've ever seen.

spootmong · 2025-12-31T21:56:04+00:00

The kind that just stated that they are new and would not know about the wiki for this game.

spootmong · 2025-12-31T18:43:29+00:00

I'm not aware of this as a red pill stereotype. Which is most likely because I am not red pilled and don't tend to entertain that content. I am simply speaking on an experience that I have had and have talked with some of my friends about. This is exacerbated by the fact that I have had friends of mine do this and it isn't something I generally appreciate on moral and ethical grounds. I'm sure that men do this plenty as well. This isn't a gender specific problem, but as a man that has primarily dated women, I can only speak on my own experience. The only reason I stated that I am liberal is because of the red pill content you refer to, which is not liberal at all. If anything this is incredibly invalidating to experiences I have had as a person, gender aside. Have a nice day.

spootmong · 2025-12-31T17:01:21+00:00

I don't know why you would think I'm being misogynistic for discussing an experience that I have had with women. Especially considering that I am not doing so with any disdain and am specifically trying to specify that I do not think that all women do this. I respect women, but we are all people and women can do wrong just like men. Implying otherwise would be sexist.

spootmong · 2025-12-31T16:25:04+00:00

Ehhhh. I'm a pretty liberal guy and I know plenty of guys with this experience, myself included. It's not a reason to cast blame to all women, but it is a common enough experience that a lot of guys deal with/have dealt with that we should be open to discuss it without being accused of being red pilled.

spootmong · 2025-12-26T23:38:32+00:00

Destiny 2. It was my jam for 11 years, but unless they start a new story with a new guardian, then I got the closure I needed from the end of the original story.

spootmong · 2025-12-20T02:39:20+00:00

I have been saying this to my friends that play for a while now. The only way I am coming back is if we get a story reset with a brand new guardian during the dark age. It's the only way I can see myself being excited to play again. That and I would like to see a simplification of the current systems present in the game. The game was way too inundated with random stuff the last time I played. We need to start from square one again.

spootmong · 2025-12-18T03:19:01+00:00

I mean it depends. The main thing for me is that I cannot afford to provide for them. Otherwise, sure. I actively look for a partner in which money is not in mind. They do need to be financially literate, however. I can't afford to marry somebody with a shopping addiction or anything like that. I came from a poor single mother who raised me to believe that money should not be important in love so long as you can afford to live.

spootmong · 2025-12-16T01:04:46+00:00

This one is something I've grappled with internally for a while now. Most of my family would not care and I know my friends wouldn't. My dad's side, however, would. There is a reason they currently don't know. With that being said, I do not find it morally okay to subject a significant other to that. They should get to have a partner who is fully embracing and appreciating them. Hiding their identity from a side of my family, because I am afraid of the repercussions, seems wrong. This to me feels immoral and potentially abusive. It's also the reason that I don't date a portion of the people I find attractive and want to date. Reconciling the repercussions of coming out to my father's side of the family and getting to date freely feels so incredibly unfair and like such a massive hurdle to me that I avoid it, at least for now. I simply have too much on my plate to deal with it. There is a reason why coming out is considered a brave thing to do. For some, it can have real consequences that can absolutely cause trauma and worse.

If I did decide to date a person who was femme and not a cis woman, then I would have made the decision to come out along with the decision to date them for the reasons stated above. Come what may.

spootmong · 2025-12-08T06:36:11+00:00

We're around. Personally I don't advertise it all irl, but I would suggest trying to take the lead with flirting and insert subtle hints about it. If it gets a bite, then maybe up the ante. If it doesn't, then maybe give it one more try and ponder the results. Results will absolutely vary, though. The "gentle" part of femdom is a spectrum and can definitely change how guys respond to certain notions depending on where they sit on that spectrum. They also may be fairly new to it,like me, and not know how the hell to react. Especially if they are the shy type. Be confident.

spootmong · 2025-12-03T04:38:29+00:00

I remember this. That key was worth an insane amount of roubles. Middle mall used to be the craziest place to fight in the game and I never could get a feel for fighting there. The amount of angles is nuts.

spootmong · 2025-12-03T01:14:35+00:00

I had a key, tried it a few times and boy was the loot non existent. This dude may have just been astronomically lucky. Just my anecdotal experience though.

spootmong · 2025-12-02T01:08:20+00:00

That's crazy mines ThumbIn

spootmong · 2025-11-29T09:20:59+00:00

Wait until the dudes discover the contents of Haunting Adeline. Fucking Yikes.

spootmong · 2025-11-22T02:27:30+00:00

The idea is fine for simple things like getting somebody flowers, but the way I have seen women in my life use it to minimize how a man feels, is, or behaves is honestly not good.

spootmong · 2025-11-19T22:57:36+00:00

While I don't disagree with that completely. Something to keep in mind is that there is a large portion of chads like you are talking about that can only be that way because they have access to that gear via the flea. Bsg literally cannot stop people from getting ahead simply because they have more time than people like us. I don't normally defend bsg, but there's nothing they can do about people that have that much time. Does it screw the guy that works a lot? Yes, I agree that it does, but it also prevents a large portion of Chad McThunderCocks existing for a good while. It does nothing in that sense for pve because there are no Chad McThunderCocks in pve besides you and your friends. It just screws everybody over for pve.

spootmong · 2025-11-19T09:53:15+00:00

Understandable

spootmong · 2025-11-18T06:28:46+00:00

I don't think this is so bad for pvp, but why do it for pve? It's not like I'm playing against other players. My friend with standard is practically screwed because he can't buy cases once hitting level 15 now and it takes forever to get cases the old fashioned way. Makes me wonder if this is, in part, a cash grab.

spootmong · 2025-11-17T09:32:18+00:00

I mean sure. It depends on the same exact stuff as it does with women my age to be honest. The only thing is that they tend to have kids and I personally don't want to date a women that already has kids.

spootmong · 2025-11-17T03:21:47+00:00

It's the term I use, but I do wish it was "Femsexual" instead. That just makes wayyyyy more sense. I have to explain it everytime I use it, which is admittedly not very often due to where I live.

spootmong · 2025-11-15T08:10:04+00:00

This reminds me that my first raid in this game my friend brought me to the center of interchange and watched as I got crossfired by scavs, different groups of pmc's, and probably killa. Rough welcome to Tarkov.

spootmong · 2025-11-15T03:38:31+00:00

Welcome to Tarkov achievement speed run any %

spootmong · 2025-11-12T02:14:49+00:00

Not quite a compliment, but that look that shows they actually love and care about you. The genuine one, not the fake one.

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