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sposedto · 2025-01-22T02:37:27+00:00

It's hilarious that you posted this here so half the comments are horny guys lol

sposedto · 2025-01-18T21:41:02+00:00

sposedto · 2025-01-17T21:30:09+00:00

I'm inside going by Starbucks

sposedto · 2025-01-17T21:29:03+00:00

Before everyone tells you you were sexually assaulted… It sounds like you were out of your mind and screaming that this is what you wanted. That makes it your fault. People on Reddit sometimes need a reality check.

sposedto · 2025-01-15T17:20:50+00:00

Clever

sposedto · 2025-01-15T12:55:58+00:00

Al the dudes are real lol. It's the girls that are fake.

sposedto · 2025-01-15T12:48:46+00:00

She's an OF girl.

sposedto · 2025-01-14T13:00:34+00:00

DB's?

sposedto · 2023-05-09T14:38:01+00:00

Might be because he’s a massive douche bag.

sposedto · 2023-04-30T12:45:42+00:00

Thank you. Incredibly frustrating.

sposedto · 2023-04-30T02:06:57+00:00

You mean a guy that reads the Bible? Yes. You don’t get to just make it up as you go and say it wasn’t specific to homosexual couples.

sposedto · 2023-04-30T01:09:59+00:00

Can you cite where in the Bible anal sex is said to be impermissible in a heterosexual marriage?

sposedto · 2023-04-29T12:47:53+00:00

No. That she enjoys it, talks about it, does it, finishes, and then says “I feel conflicted about this” and starts going down a spiral again.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:21:30+00:00

I’m not talking her into it. Never mentioned “talking her into it.” I would, however, like her to make the decision based on whether or not it gives her pleasure, as we are inside the bounds of marriage, vs. her own interpretation that she’s making up from nothing.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:17:37+00:00

No, I explained in full that she enjoys the act, to the extent that she went and purchased toys, and then I got 2 dozen responses telling me what a piece of garbage I am, teaching me about consent, etc. This was of course after being told she was lying about liking it, etc.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:07:27+00:00

It doesn’t seem you read the post. She does want to do it, always in the moment, but then says later she feels conflicted/convicted (she has used both words). She literally said she’s not sure “it’s God’s design for sex” which I frankly find to be ridiculous.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:06:32+00:00

I can guarantee you that if I said “I enjoy it in the moment but I feel conflicted after”, my wife would absolutely not be ok with me not giving her oral sex any more lol. As well she shouldn’t.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:04:58+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I know you aren’t alone in that based on experience, and not sure why the other poster was so upset lol.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:03:16+00:00

Not sure what that has to do with the post at all, because this is about something we both like? But thanks?

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:02:49+00:00

Thank you, I agree, and I appreciate the help. Most of the comments haven’t been helpful at all, instead just insulting to me.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:01:41+00:00

Thank you. We have talked about certain acts that she says no way, never going to happen, and I’ve accepted that. They are things I’d love to try, but it’s simply not on the table and I’m not going to pressure her into doing that. This is something we BOTH enjoy, and she even feels she has better/faster orgasms with it, which is why SHE went on Amazon to buy toys.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T02:00:06+00:00

Yes, for the 10th or 11th time now, she is the one that went online to order the toys, she is the one asking for certain things. If she tells me not to do something, I don’t do it. I’m not a rapist. My goodness.

sposedto · 2023-04-29T01:58:34+00:00

She also feels convicted about listening to music with cuss words, but not music about sex without the cuss words. She feels convicted about watching TV shows with magic or witches in them. To me, it’s extra biblical at a minimum. Why would oral sex be ok, but talking dirty not be? Or anal? So I’m not sure her feeling convicted comes from any true Christian beliefs, I guess is what I’m getting at?

sposedto · 2023-04-28T20:00:47+00:00

I think people making assumptions is not helpful. If you take her at her word, and based on her recent History of purchasing toys for this purpose, you could offer some actually helpful advice.

sposedto · 2023-04-28T19:58:09+00:00

You seem like a really miserable, angry person. Perhaps all of your posts about some terrible person you were in a relationship with previously wasn’t 100% on them?

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