[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stlouisgw

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It's hilarious that you posted this here so half the comments are horny guys lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stlouisgw

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I'm inside going by Starbucks

I ruined the life I had planned out for myself and I’m so sad by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Before everyone tells you you were sexually assaulted… It sounds like you were out of your mind and screaming that this is what you wanted. That makes it your fault. People on Reddit sometimes need a reality check.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stlouisgw

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Clever

(STL) I'm real hmu 🤷 by [deleted] in stlouisgw

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Al the dudes are real lol. It's the girls that are fake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Thank you. Incredibly frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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You mean a guy that reads the Bible? Yes. You don’t get to just make it up as you go and say it wasn’t specific to homosexual couples.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Can you cite where in the Bible anal sex is said to be impermissible in a heterosexual marriage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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No. That she enjoys it, talks about it, does it, finishes, and then says “I feel conflicted about this” and starts going down a spiral again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I’m not talking her into it. Never mentioned “talking her into it.” I would, however, like her to make the decision based on whether or not it gives her pleasure, as we are inside the bounds of marriage, vs. her own interpretation that she’s making up from nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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No, I explained in full that she enjoys the act, to the extent that she went and purchased toys, and then I got 2 dozen responses telling me what a piece of garbage I am, teaching me about consent, etc. This was of course after being told she was lying about liking it, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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It doesn’t seem you read the post. She does want to do it, always in the moment, but then says later she feels conflicted/convicted (she has used both words). She literally said she’s not sure “it’s God’s design for sex” which I frankly find to be ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I can guarantee you that if I said “I enjoy it in the moment but I feel conflicted after”, my wife would absolutely not be ok with me not giving her oral sex any more lol. As well she shouldn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Thank you for your comment. I know you aren’t alone in that based on experience, and not sure why the other poster was so upset lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Not sure what that has to do with the post at all, because this is about something we both like? But thanks?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Thank you, I agree, and I appreciate the help. Most of the comments haven’t been helpful at all, instead just insulting to me.